I try to reconnect to you. But everything is useless. Life is a f**king movie. Goodbye. Always give you the best wishes.😭
Outsider to the circle
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Just wanted someone to listen to me ...
In primary school I had 5 friends out them only one was my best friend . I didn’t hang out with them because they had clubs and stuff that I weren’t in ( I remember hiding behind bushes thinking I’m playing hide and seek and stand in the playground humming to myself ) they still invited me to their parties so I thought we were all good friends .
2 out of the group went with me into secondary school . I hung out with the one I called my best friend but not the other one . We were in some classes together and I loved talking to her but as soon as we left class she would walk off to her group . So I decided to stick with my best friend and made 2 other friends . Gradually my circle of 3 became big but even though I hung out with the group I didn’t talk to anyone . My best friend called out to me so I just stuck to the edge of the circle ( I tried talking but they all had the same interests and knew what was going on in each other lives they knew gossip but I didn’t , I didn’t really have anything to talk about except the books I read ) . It stayed like this but sometimes at lunch or break I find myself hanging out on my own because the group moved somewhere else without telling me . Now in year 10 I’ve made more friends they wait for me after class and walk with me unlike the group who walked ahead or separated ( I didn’t know which person to follow so I took my own path ) . I talk a lot more with my new friends and now I’m thinking that the people I called my friends aren’t my friends . My best friend doesn’t group with me in class nor talks with me , I make comments and try to make small talk but it doesn’t last
Are they really my friends ?
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@ArayaKayas Well...If they were ur friends, they would've cared about what u feel.When ur friends with sb, u automatically know what they need or feel.I don't think ur best friend even cared.All she wanted was to get out of class n walk right up to her group.Apparently she did not hold u important in her life..But now u have friends who love u n listen to u..Good luck!! <3 N be careful while making friends cz not all of them r real :blush:
Actually I've been where you've been in the past.N I still am there.Maybe I'm just not that important to my friends but still...I never lose hope n now I'm a part of a group who listen to me.. -
can i be your friend
basu
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maybe you are good without them, you haven't met the people with the same vibe as yours yet.. try to hop to another area, try to make friends with people who have same interests and hobbies as you do
Kill them with kindness :)
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@Wick sure
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@DarkIce Mm ig
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@cjko me being socially awkward makes it hard
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Sorry, i cant help you. Because i myself is confused that, do i have friends or not.😂😂
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@ArayaKayas I see.. how young are you?
Well, I think that's normal to a teenagers nowadays. Maybe you are not exposed to social gatherings or not exposed to the crowd , that makes you socially awkward. But , everything will change. You'll passed through that awkward phase in your lifeKill them with kindness :)
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@Bucky-2-0 that’s fine
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@cjko honestly In general I don’t like being around a lot of people and there are only some that I open up to
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@cjko and I’m 15
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@ArayaKayas I see. Well, that's you're preference. But again, everything will change.. :)
You will meet awesome people along the way in this journey called LIFE. Good luck :) -
@cjko Thanks =^^=
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@ArayaKayas You can try and work on it and make it disappear. There is plenty of material on that subject which you could use :D
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@What-is-this well what kind ?
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@ArayaKayas There are some really nice books based on that issue (being socially awkward), but you can just search online for nice blogs and youtube videos. They are simple, easy to follow and great to learn from. I am not sure if I can advertise other websites here on TWS. And don't stress yourself too much about that, it's nothing you can't overcome. Just go step by step :)
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@What-is-this ty for the advice
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@ArayaKayas Np np
