I have lost a girl named samaira
Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved so much?
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@MillieBee nah
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@Xavier suuurreee you don't 🤣💀
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@Brøkëñ XD
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@MillieBee Yes... I've dealt with it by both riding it out (the "time is a healer" thing) and pushing myself to look ahead and move forward rather than dwell. Some scars never fully heal though 🤷♂️
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@Matt_Aranha that is awesome. Keep moving forward :)
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@Escanor_ seasons change my friend. We cross path with people for a reason. Some bring good changes others not so good. Times a healer. Just have to make something painful into something beautiful.
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@MillieBee I have dealt with this and overcame this sadness by talking to my besties and doing things I love the most😊
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@reviewer_1 i am happy for you :)
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@MillieBee unfortunately, I don't trust most people I love coz I knew they would hurt me one day. But I'm willing to deal with them accordingly in my dreams if they continue to hurt me. After all, everything is possible in dreams if you cannot touch the ones you feel can sting you so easily.😎😎
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@Cold-Sun i totally agree with you. Dreams are free :)
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By moving on
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@MillieBee when someone you loved hurts you, you feel the pain but just know dealing with it is the most important part. The effects will be positive or negative depending on the way you dealt with the pain
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@MillieBee welll it depends how are you hurt 🙁🙁.
If she hurt me intentionally then definitely I'll not love anyone after that but if she hurt me by mistake then definitely I'll forgive her cause I love her very much.. -
@Cold-Sun yes, we all have our own ways of dealing with pain. In my case, I completely shut everyone out. I bottle up emotions and just pretend it never happened :(
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@Mickeyyyyy I mean there is always room for forgiveness BUT how many times can one forgive? What if it happens again?
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People are just a series of conditioned behaviours
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True, you can’t forgive someone for the same mistake infinite times. People’s priorities change over time, and they might stop caring about you the way they did before. If you’re too weak to come to terms with that, there’s no point in staying in the relationship anymore feeling hurt and alone all the time. Have the self-respect to not let anyone take you for granted.
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@MillieBee Yes 😔
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@MillieBee yes it happened but now i am strong enough not take too much time to recover.
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@Escanor_ if you felt like you were being ignored, why stay in that relationship? Don't tell me you loved her. I call that BS. I'm happy you have found you worth and have moved on. So happy for you.