I just want to hear some other perspective with my current situation
I am a very dedicated wife to my husband. I make sure everything he needs is provided, a clean house, hot home cooked meals every night after work. I am always kind and sweet to him. I never yell at him when we argue. I never ask for anything. I don't like material things. I don't even spend a dime for vanity, but I could say I am still looking very presentable.
However I do not feel like he considers me special. I feel like he takes me for granted. Maybe he thinks I will always be here for him since I am a bit clingy and I seek for his attention. I feel that his appreciation for everything I do for him is enough but he barely gives me that.
Now, I am trying to dettach my self from him, but I still cook and do the usual wife things without showing affection. I only talk to him when necessary. I miss him so badly but it seems that he does not care at all that I have changed my treatment towards him.