this is a ...disturbing topic, care to shed some background? any time of violence or abuse is not tolerated here or in person
What are your bad habits?
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What kind of bad habits do you have? Do you want to quit them?
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@OliveOlivia I keep making the effort with people who don't make the same effort back. People who've walked away from or betrayed me I've forgiven only for them to repeat their behaviour. I show too much compassion and understanding to those who I would never dream of treating the same way and who would not reciprocate the effort if I were to treat them the way they had.
Now I know there is an argument that compassion is not a flaw, and I do believe it is a strength, yet when it leaves you open to be taken advantage of so you find yourself constantly walking difficult lines it is an unhealthy habit too. I wouldn't change though; if anything the world needs more of that to give those who need it some hope. Be the change you want to see in the world, so the saying goes...
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I have a bad habit of caring too much for people who don’t care enough
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- Eating loads of junk food. I´m quite skinny so people usually get surprised by that fact.
- Actually, I eat all the time. Whether I´m bored, anxious, or simply prefer to extend a task I´m not willing to do.
- Procrastination.
- Avoiding eye contact.
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@artsycristy Totally hear you on this one...
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@OliveOlivia I guess my bad habit is getting irritated too easily and yeah I want to quit it like hella yeah.. btw did you draw your profile pic? It's stunning! I really appreciate all your topics! We need less hoes and more amazing people like you here. Big claps for you 👏👏👏👏👏
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@Matt_Aranha That's rough... people fucking suck. It's really good that you still keep your chin up though :)
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@TWSBot why do you avoid eyecontact?
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Frequent awkward eye contacts.
Procrastination.
Pornography.
Can't handle friendships/relationships properly.
And what @artsycristy said!bitchbehumble
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@artsycristy that happens when person loves too much....care too much.....and when it not comes in return it hurts
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- sleeping less in night
- reading half , never completed any book
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I stay quite when the person i'm talking to is expecting an answer from me, for the question i don't like....I won't be mad, i won't be arguing.... If someone asks me about the bullshit things...i will stay quiet and look dead into his eyes!!..
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@Matt_Aranha said in What are your bad habits?:
@OliveOlivia I keep making the effort with people who don't make the same effort back. People who've walked away from or betrayed me I've forgiven only for them to repeat their behaviour. I show too much compassion and understanding to those who I would never dream of treating the same way and who would not reciprocate the effort if I were to treat them the way they had.
Now I know there is an argument that compassion is not a flaw, and I do believe it is a strength, yet when it leaves you open to be taken advantage of so you find yourself constantly walking difficult lines it is an unhealthy habit too. I wouldn't change though; if anything the world needs more of that to give those who need it some hope. Be the change you want to see in the world, so the saying goes...
Don't forget however to show your teeth. They need to see, that you're not weak, but that you consciously decide to do good when they don't. Be the mirror for their iniquities.
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- blaming myself all the time
- catching new bad habits really fast (like if I stay in bed one day too long, I can be pretty sure I'll do the same stupid thing the rest of the week)
- taking forever to get rid of those new bad habits
- being freakin' easily discouraged
Yes
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@OliveOlivia
My bad habits are numerous and some I should quit and others I will when I get ready to do so.
Most people assume that I want to stop certain things but I don't. Just because it's a bad thing doesn't necessarily mean it isn't usefull to a certain extent. There are some things that I do to escape the reality of my existence. They would definitely be considered bad and habit forming. But they serve their purpose and I don't need anyone that hasn't walked a mile in my shoes to tell me how I should live my life.
In fact most of the people who I know have had a breakdown or so over things much smaller than the things I have been through.
I don't go around telling them what they need to do about it.
If you really want to know what bad habits I have meFor those of you who are too lazy to read my profile........
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@petrapark3r said in What are your bad habits?:
Don't forget however to show your teeth. They need to see, that you're not weak, but that you consciously decide to do good when they don't. Be the mirror for their iniquities.
Absolutely. It's like, inaction because of indecision is very different from a conscious strong choice not to act. And when it comes to showing my own teeth, well I tend to skip a stage and use them straightaway - if people have tested me to that point and not noticed they're getting near a limit, I don't do them the favour of giving a warning 😂
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@Matt_Aranha said in What are your bad habits?:
... And when it comes to showing my own teeth, well I tend to skip a stage and use them straightaway - if people have tested me to that point and not noticed they're getting near a limit, I don't do them the favour of giving a warning 😂
😂 not sure this is what i meant though. if you're bottling up things and then exploding into their face thats not a good thing either IMHO. I think its good to take people to the sides and tell them they are on the wrong track before things escalate. That already shows you got teeth.
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@OliveOlivia chatting is the only bad hapit. I keep chatting even while having sex with my GF. Once she reaches orgasm, she sleeps. Then I will continue to enjoy sex and if I find girl for chatting, then I will be chatting with her
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@Sam501 said in What are your bad habits?:
@OliveOlivia chatting is the only bad hapit. I keep chatting even while having sex with my GF. Once she reaches orgasm, she sleeps. Then I will continue to enjoy sex and if I find girl for chatting, then I will be chatting with her
How can any of you be satisfied if you chat during sex? Sex is much more fulfilling if you give yourself fully to your partner, attention and all...
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OMG SAME
