@Dâšÿ yeah, yet I still made the wrong choices, now I get the consequences....
Would you rather be smart but not too beautiful? Or beautiful but not too smart?
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Smart obviously
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The looks is what we usually see 1st so I find it hard to be with someone i'm not attracted too
we need to be honest about this. im all for dating a guy for his brain and not his looks but lets be honest, if i dont like what im looking at, hes not even gonna get to look at the dimple up close. :smirk:
(at the same time, he may look exactly like what i like but if he cant hold a conversation, looks wont save him)
the thing is, everyone has a different taste (thank goodness) so the whole beauty question has many levels.
honestly, i feel that people who feel ugly use this against the world to try and prove a point, and also to make others feel bad.
maybe this is a touchy feeling for me :laughing: but im all good, i like brains over looks, but i agree with my buddy here, if im not attracted to them, physically, i guess we stick to friends, which is almost better. -
@Karina-Kara yeah.. lol
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@Lurker hahaha yeah you got that point there.. well, maybe you can choose a person with dominant brain or dominant looks
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@Vanessa-Snow said in Would you rather be smart but not too beautiful? Or beautiful but not too smart?:
@cjko what should i answer if im already "smart but not too beautiful"? Cause i dont wanna trade. Brains over looks, always. :smirk:
It's smart but not too beautiful category
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@Rayse that's great.. looks ddn't matter that much?
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@cjko I'd rather be young, dumb and beautiful with a heart.
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@Kiss_My_Axe than what? Haha
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@cjko then shed find someone rich of course.
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@Kiss_My_Axe haha liliputan.. why cat fishing?
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@Karina-Kara
Indeed, beauty is what's inside.
It is not something that you can hide.
Rather, It comes out naturally like a tide.
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@Alte hmm okay I get it
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@cjko shhhh!!
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@Kiss_My_Axe lol nice photo
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@Kiss_My_Axe Beautiful!
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@cjko that depends on who you ask usually, but no i don't believe it holds much weight as we are all of the same divine essence underneath all the labels and "worth" we place on ourselves and others.
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@Rayse hmm yeah we see things differently and so we like or hate people based on our perspective
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@cjko beautiful but not too smart :shrug:
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@DarkIce69 hmm why?
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What most people don't realize when they read a question like that is that this is not about being superficial or not. Because wether you like someone for their looks or their brains, you like them for their body. Nobody made himself smart. You can only make yourself stupid. And people don't make themselves beautiful either (I find almost all results of cosmetic surgery downright ugly).
I would chose something entirely different: the ability to connect... What we need is neither beauty nor smarts, we need meaning in our lives... and these things cannot give meaning.
So that said, I believe it to be stupid, to deselect someone for their looks or their brains. All people are crazily interesting, if you only know how to listen. The criteria to chose the people around you should be: are they good for you or not. And then, if you became strong enough, you might try to help one or another of those who are "not good for you"...
But I most be honest too. I could not be with a girl I don't find attractive. I don't buy into beauty ideals though, I cannot really define what I find attractive, but I have found very very different women attractive in my life... The reason simply being, that she would see that in my eyes, and it would hurt the relationship. But thank god people are different and like different things, so that's not really a problem...