Some men grew up in broken homes, some had sorry excuses for a father! And some had bad father figures!. Where their father's or father figure's where womanizer's, alcoholic's, etc.
Imagine being a young child watchin your so called father beat your mother, bringin in other women every other day, basically watchin your father cheat, lie and abuse your mother! As a kid growing up they see all that and they take it as a normal behavior. Kids learn alot from action's more than word's. They think that is how a man is supposed to treat woman.
Then we got society that is slowly brainwashing our youth into thinking it's cool to have more than one woman, its cool to cheat, its cool to lie and play games, its cool to mistreat a woman and forget that she have feelings too!. Its cool to be alcoholic, its cool to smoke e.t.c. and if you ain't duin none of that you are considered that you aint a REAL MAN 
. smh.
We need to stay involved in our children live's, start some reading, and writing program's for our children's and youg brother's, and youth at large. All of them need's a positive mindset, positive role model's, we must teach our young men how to properly love, respect and treat a woman.
No matter how your life was, how many time's you saw your father figure beating your mom and mistreating her, let that be a lesson to never mistreat any girl (woman), we are not born in this life to be the same copy of our father figure's our our parent's. If your parent, mom or dad had bad behavior's let them encourage you into being a better person than her/him and prove her/him wrong of what he or she believes.
There is a certain age you get to in life as a man. Its not about how sexy the woman looks, or how much she can slay, its more about how safe your heart and future are, with her, that is being MATURED.
Good hearted people's are so rare to find, as being nice doesnt coast anything. Be one and change our society!!!
Peace out y'all. 
