Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
When do you think is the right time to get married ?
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Share your thoughts.. maybe some of us are frequently asked about this question. hahha
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@cjko for me .... probably never lol
I am still yet to meet my dream wife face to face, and she would say know , soooo I guess its a never from me lol :) -
@cjko whenever you think you are ready.
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@cjko Il be an oldmaid.. Haha
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@Durwin said in When do you think is the right time to get married ?:
@cjko for me .... probably never lol
I am still yet to meet my dream wife face to face, and she would say know , soooo I guess its a never from me lol :)hahha that's sad to hear..
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@Barton said in When do you think is the right time to get married ?:
@cjko whenever you think you are ready.
hmm yeah, right.. that's absolutely right. but, when do you think you are already ready for it? haha
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@Bela-Hella said in When do you think is the right time to get married ?:
@cjko Il be an oldmaid.. Haha
don't be like that.. hahha meet @Durwin instead :)
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@cjko when you stop feeling lonely.
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@Barton said in When do you think is the right time to get married ?:
@cjko when you stop feeling lonely.
but loneliness never leave .. it just stay put
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@cjko haha.. no it will leave for sure. once you are content with yourselves.
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@Durwin omg , really ? I feel honestly awkward when you try to push it.. haha
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@Barton said in When do you think is the right time to get married ?:
@cjko haha.. no it will leave for sure. once you are content with yourselves.
Nice nice.. so, for example, I'm not yet in a legal age and I feel those things you mentioned, does it mean it is the right time ?
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@cjko sorry , ms .... i will :zipper_mouth_face: from here on in ;)
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@cjko lol his my unclenut gurl..besides I know who he likes it here, but i rather shattap! Haha
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@cjko how can you marry when you are not legal ?
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@Durwin thanks :)
I can always be a friend to anyone who's kind and nice with me.. I just feel awkward about that thing.. -
@Bela-Hella I knew it .. I just kinda feel awkward now haha tbh
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@cjko The right time for marriage is different for each person and unique to each situation. but i believe we shouldn't push for relationship, just flow with life and work hard and continue our strive, if someone making real efforts to be in your daily schedule and has all the Qualities that you think your special one should have, and you're catching them butterflies all day all night :joy: that would be it :D :grin:
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@Adyyan said in When do you think is the right time to get married ?:
@cjko The right time for marriage is different for each person and unique to each situation. but i believe we shouldn't push for relationship, just flow with life and work hard and continue our strive, if someone making real efforts to be in your daily schedule and has all the Qualities that you think your special one should have, and you're catching them butterflies all day all night :joy: that would be it :D :grin:
this is a cute response.. thanks for participating :)
but, do we all need to invest more on ourselves before entering marriage?