Family issues: In need for someone to talk to

[Chu]

I am currently at a very low point in my life.
I had a partner that I was in love with. We both love to travel, and I wanted to travel with him. We were together for almost 1 year.
However my parents had very strong beliefs, and said that no travelling together is allow before marriage. I disagreed with this belief. I decided to lie to them and also made my partner lie to them, that we would not go travelling. But we did go, and lied about it.
I think I was not a good liar, and they sent a private investigator to follow me. We were caught.
They say they can never accept him ever again.
And as a result, I had to break up with him to keep my family together.
It was a choice between my relationship breaking or my family breaking.
I chose my family. But I feel that I am scarred for life. No only did I lose my (first) love, but I feel like I lost alot of my love and trust between myself and my family. And that makes me sad.

[hardik5369]

Don't worry dear, the true love will come....you just need to go through it,but take easy on yourself. I guess some guilt is overcoming your efforts to forget.

[Cold Sun]

They thought he was gonna chu😭😭

[Zoheb Hossain]

@Chu dont worry. The same things happed with me.. All will okay... Can i have your another social id? Like whatsApp or Facebook?

[TM]

Was it lack of patience from your or his side or just underestimation or whatever was the reason behind it , I see that respecting your parents is a priority especially if they respect you .. so It's just a matter of time until u regain their trust and maybe have a better partner .

[JohnnyG 0]

Hi bud, good luck in fixing your problem. I do not have the answer, probably no one has.

All I can do is share a comment, from some Frech dude I met at university, regarding family.

Keep the photos, and never talk to them again

You're call how you take this comment.

I wish you all the luck in the world,

JohnnyG

[NitinA]

have patience dear. I can understand the feeling as am also going through some complicated stages in my life.
Will say take care of yourself and try to divert your mind in other activities

[Heilmaus]

@Chu hi I am a free retired therapist of you need help or a ear then message me /dm me and I might be able too help you figure out your issues