Heart broken. Just experienced my first heart break. This cut is deep.


  • I was recently talking to someone for about a year. We met on a social media site and we first developed a friendship. I felt like we developed a really good connection, we had so many things in common. He said let’s be friends at first to get to know each other. We developed feelings for each other, and I really thought he was the one. I never felt like this with anyone before, and i felt like we were meant to be.

    He recently just told me that he can’t see things long term. I’m extremely confused because we developed such a good connection, where we can really be ourselves infront of each other. We also built an emotional connection. Im extremely heart broken because my intuition tells me he was talking to another girl and picked her over me because there had been a few times where he would text me for a few weeks. There has been moments where he would ghost me. During this past year, I did not talk to anyone else. I stayed loyal to him as if he was mine. I’m really heartbroken, I haven’t slept the past few days. I used the gym as my main therapy but I do not have anyone to talk to about this. Please help me. I’m devastated.


  • first time ? welcome to the gang broette stay hydrated during this hot summer

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    an unofficial e-date is really scary nowadays.


  • @swk yeah back in the days we used to have babies online , good ol'days

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    @Lake-Bodom such a strong spermatozoon. salute.

    raise glas


  • We did meet in person after we chatted online for about a month you guys. It wasn’t an e date. Let’s keep that in mind.

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    @princess2214 maybe he found you unattractive. that's the reason why he starting to have side chick and he chosen her over you. don't have to be sad and justget over it already.


  • @princess2214 there are many fish in the sea , besides you can always chose to be lesbian if you ever feel like your luck with the opposite shreks is shrinking ;)


  • No he didn’t find me unattractive. He always called me beautiful on the inside and out. His friends even told him I’m a beautiful girl.


  • You both don’t give good advice.

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    @princess2214 beautiful and unattractive are two diff things. if u only wanna hear some sweet advice, we are defo not your mummy.


  • He found me very attractive, trust me. Obviously I wanted to keep to use my profile picture since I wanted to be private about this.

    It’s not about sweet advice, I’m asking for good advice.


  • @princess2214 I hope you do acknowledge that you expressing your one year relationship in few lines will not leave the peers interested in helping you with a thorough view of it. Instead of being fistful, maybe you could show some gratitude to those that are actually willing to give you a hand.

    Back to the matter at hand, we cannot help but leave our assumptions, assumptions that will most likely be wrong, as we do not have enough information. Reiterate the events, see if there was anything that happened and could've led him to the decision of keeping it in the friendship boundaries. And, if you are brave enough, ask him personally.

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    @princess2214 good advice is to get over him, find yourself another responsible man. but if you wanna wait for his return, sure.


  • @princess2214 be my guest, little sister. I dont say it does not hurt at all but he does not deserve you. You shall move on :)
    You go girl


  • @princess2214 Heartbreak is gonna happen a lot unfortunately. Just know there are others out there waiting for you! You will find the right one for you :)

    @hereForTheDrama said in Heart broken. Just experienced my first heart break. This cut is deep.:

    we cannot help but leave our assumptions, assumptions that will most likely be wrong, as we do not have enough information. Reiterate the events, see if there was anything that happened and could've led him to the decision of keeping it in the friendship boundaries.

    Honestly we don't even know the ages. This could be 2 14 year olds for all we know and then that would explain a lot right? Younger relationships tend to not last like ones as adults.


  • @Janet I did try to think of a number when it came to their age myself, but it is not an easy task. "Princess as a nickname, plus the first heartbreak, must be some child, hence the emotional burst" was the first thought. Yet people hardly take their time writing a coherent text, something I must give credits for. Want to place bets on who is going to be closer to the real age?


  • @hereForTheDrama said in Heart broken. Just experienced my first heart break. This cut is deep.:

    Want to place bets on who is going to be closer to the real age?

    I am gonna go with 16. (as her age) I cannot judge his age.


  • @Janet Well, that is incovenient, the very same number came to my mind. I'll go for the upper limit in this case, 17!


  • my english horrible ... . MY gf left be for some other guy we meet online when she leaving i does'nt stop him i just say bye but now i feeling alone i have no one for telling my emotion feeling i just cry from inside and showing a big smile on my face so every one think i can't seirous for anything while typing this i am still crying 2i am just 16 year old i know some body make fun of my english and mine .but .........................................................................