@Stranger1110111 move on,i mean i know its hard but you have to eventually. Do positive activities such as listening to music or studying or cooking or whatever you like,basically keep yourself busy and happy.Don't let a breakup break you from inside
Heart broken. Just experienced my first heart break. This cut is deep.
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@princess2214 beautiful and unattractive are two diff things. if u only wanna hear some sweet advice, we are defo not your mummy.
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He found me very attractive, trust me. Obviously I wanted to keep to use my profile picture since I wanted to be private about this.
It’s not about sweet advice, I’m asking for good advice.
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@princess2214 I hope you do acknowledge that you expressing your one year relationship in few lines will not leave the peers interested in helping you with a thorough view of it. Instead of being fistful, maybe you could show some gratitude to those that are actually willing to give you a hand.
Back to the matter at hand, we cannot help but leave our assumptions, assumptions that will most likely be wrong, as we do not have enough information. Reiterate the events, see if there was anything that happened and could've led him to the decision of keeping it in the friendship boundaries. And, if you are brave enough, ask him personally.
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@princess2214 good advice is to get over him, find yourself another responsible man. but if you wanna wait for his return, sure.
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@princess2214 be my guest, little sister. I dont say it does not hurt at all but he does not deserve you. You shall move on :)
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@princess2214 Heartbreak is gonna happen a lot unfortunately. Just know there are others out there waiting for you! You will find the right one for you :)
@hereForTheDrama said in Heart broken. Just experienced my first heart break. This cut is deep.:
we cannot help but leave our assumptions, assumptions that will most likely be wrong, as we do not have enough information. Reiterate the events, see if there was anything that happened and could've led him to the decision of keeping it in the friendship boundaries.
Honestly we don't even know the ages. This could be 2 14 year olds for all we know and then that would explain a lot right? Younger relationships tend to not last like ones as adults.
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@Janet I did try to think of a number when it came to their age myself, but it is not an easy task. "Princess as a nickname, plus the first heartbreak, must be some child, hence the emotional burst" was the first thought. Yet people hardly take their time writing a coherent text, something I must give credits for. Want to place bets on who is going to be closer to the real age?
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@hereForTheDrama said in Heart broken. Just experienced my first heart break. This cut is deep.:
Want to place bets on who is going to be closer to the real age?
I am gonna go with 16. (as her age) I cannot judge his age.
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@Janet Well, that is incovenient, the very same number came to my mind. I'll go for the upper limit in this case, 17!
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my english horrible ... . MY gf left be for some other guy we meet online when she leaving i does'nt stop him i just say bye but now i feeling alone i have no one for telling my emotion feeling i just cry from inside and showing a big smile on my face so every one think i can't seirous for anything while typing this i am still crying 2i am just 16 year old i know some body make fun of my english and mine .but .........................................................................
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When we hurt them, they call us little devils, they swear never to fall for our lies. Why??? once beaten, twice shy as the adage goes. You weren't beaten by Mr. Corn-beef-torpedo that you up the duff and haven't a reason to move on. Even if it was, you'd still move on. @princess2214, I just hope you don't become pessimist and start looking at dark side of everything while nursing that wounded heart, but give some time to others prove they ain't like him. Also remember, your first relationship is sth to learn from and by this, you training your mind not take everything as biblical truth. With time, am sure you'll become an analytical lover and find that perfect guy for you. Good luck.
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I had a broken heart, almost drove me to insanity or worse. Stay in there, and think of the good people in your life. Meet with good friends and stay active! It's the alone time hat hurts the most, so be with your good friends. Time does make it better, but finding a new kind soul makes it heal. =) We are there with ya! :heart:
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@princess2214 just do something. I had one of those. I loved her hard. I started writing because of her. I loved hard. I never met her, and she killed her self in the end. So, there is that. She was the first person I dreamed of marrying.
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@Kyle-Norwood shit escalated from writing to killing self real quick damn , sorry to hear that though
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@princess2214 Hey princess, this is seriously your first hearbreak? welcome to the club dudette. Also... my pms are always open.
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@princess2214 Learn this lesson from uncle TM , Never Give your all to anything or anyone , not only In relationships but anything In life . Cz when life take you for granted It means game over . Always keep something only for yourself that no one can ever reach or touch , think of yourself as a queen In your own kingdom. Train yourself to be alone since thats the worst scenario ..
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@Janet in gonna go with 14
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The guy you described sounds like me. The only difference is I picked my girl (who recently) left me because she showed me that she would be enough. However, life happened and we got separated cause of school and after awhile she would just get really annoyed and rude to me. Now by this time I have completely devoted myself to her never realizing that we would end. I kept beliving she would be alright but no every small thing she would act like she didnt need me. I figured she really wanted to end it and even let her but asked one last help " To just let me cry my heart out one time and that even she just heard me once maybe i could maybe move on." But she said that she didnt care what happened to me anymore. She said she didnt have time to listen to me no matter when i called. Her 15 minutes could have helped me so much but no for all the times i would put her over me for everything but still life turned cold. Out of blue. I wasnt prepared for this. I hope you be alright. I really feel for u and i will pray for u too I hope u will do the same for me. Please pray for me too.
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@princess2214 girl he ain't shit. He never was. He was a small part in your life. Take it as a fun time. Don't think bieng in a relationship is always a good thing. Find comfort in your self. Its a blessing. Don't even concern yourself over people like that. Be so sure of your self, that whenever something hurtful like that happens you just see it as a trivial matter. Nothing worth to fret about.
