@Nimo24 In all honesty I think just leave him. I know that is harsh, but I highly reccomend it, don't waste your energy. He sounds like a douche.
What I mean is, he's promising you things, then cancelling last minute. On top of the cancelling, he's very adamant in saying he loves you even when he's failed you three times (correct me if I'm wrong on that, I may have misread things). I think you should run from the relationship, it's not worth your energy. He'll only emotionally drain you by leading you on like that. Virtual dating is hardly worth it, there are way better fish in the sea. From my experience as a virtual-dater, real-life relationships are much better. Do as you'd like, but I'd say drop him girlie.
Anyone need a therapist to rant about your problems too?
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@AXES just don’t tell my girlfriends that 😂
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@idek2019 I badly need a therapist
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I need some therapy too. I struggle with severe depression since I lost my job 2 months ago. I don't socialize anymore with my friends. I mean the only way I socialize is here on TWS, but it's not enough for me. I need my life back!
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idek2019 hahaha.. you way too funny... haha
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no, but u're actualy pretty lovely and cool and i like ur words :)
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@rohitSgn whats going on?
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@Dogban u just gotta put yourself out there cuz im sure there are plenty of other opportunities for jobs. having a job is a great way to socialize, and im sure the job u were relieved from wasnt the only one lol. but if u really liked your job, then u should ask yourself, "what did i do to put myself in this situation?" or "did something happen within the company that i had to be relieved from my job?" once youve figured that out, take it as a learning experience and gain as much knowledge as u can from it. then use that knowledge to help u in future jobs
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@idek2019 you're right and thanks for your advice.
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@Dogban no problem, I hope I was of some help to your situation 👍🏻
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Yeah, in fact my problem is that I don't have such a high self-esteem. I feel like I am underappreciated in every place where I work.
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@Dogban well, u have to understand that none of us will get far in life if we spend time thinking about what others think about us. Remember what the main focus of a job is: to do your job. Making friends or feeling appreciated is just a bonus u receive from that job and one of the reasons that you’d look forward to going to work. However, the boss should be appreciative of the work that u do. If not, then find another job where u know, or at least expect, the boss will appreciate your work.
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What type of therapist you want