Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Do you think universe conspires two souls to be together? :)
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Whatever’s meant to be will be😊🙈
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@WtfJudith well no, by you have been told half truth
If 2 protons are close enough then nuclear force will come in action which is way stronger than
Electrostatic one (for very small distances). So they ll attract. That's the reason why nucleus don't burst even when it's holding protons so close -
@Mr-H EaT mE
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@cjko Well, we all know that there is no such thing. But when we happen to meet certain people we start fantasizing. And thanks to creative writing we dont have any shortage for celebrating such sorts of romanticizations. And its all okay, for a while, until the ultimate party crasher makes his entrance. Reality. And oh boy, does he have that wicked smile pasted on his face. So No, as much as I wanna believe in it I dont want to. Because I had already met him a couple of times in my life. And I dont intend to meet him again for a long time.
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@Jeff9998
Yep... Take a moment to realise that it's amazingly small distance (order of a fermimeter) at which the nuclear force acts. ( : -
@Styles_ yes LoL 😅
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@Zen00 hmm.. maybe I think, that "the one that got away" just gave up easily.. love is cheap nowadays to those who don't believe soulmates. haha
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@Styles_ this makes sense.. how can we know if she/he is the one?? haha
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@WtfJudith hmm maybe you are in the wrong planet. hehe jk
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@Vampire_Queen haha it's just like going with the flow.. like a dead fish?
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@Barton I see.. thanks for sharing your idea :)
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perhaps, in the universe there are so many coincidences
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@cjko dead fish strategy 😉
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@cjko This is actually a deep question if you exclude romance out of it. Right side of the brain does wonders and on this topic :D
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@Mr-H well said. I understand.
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Any ladies on here won’t talk shit with me
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@Mr-Ghost do you think everything is connected ?
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@Vampire_Queen something like that.. haha do you think, it is a good strategy ?
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@What-is-this hmm I wonder what does your brain wonders about.. haha
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@kermit that's sad