@someone216 yeah i get it, i understand how hard it is to break up and how bad you would feel, but please, make no mistake, first time that you feel like somebody else might be better person for you, thats the signal you should always take, no exceptions. And i will repeat myself sorry, but, if you break up now it will be a lot easier than looking back to this moment 2 years from now and wandering what life would be like if you had broken up while it was not too late. Trust me, i myself had a relationship that i didnt want to end because of feeling the grief, but you are doing him more damage by staying with him while you dont really, truly want that, than to leave him straight. I know its hard, but its for the best. Thats my advice, hope you get your feelings sorted out.
Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha
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@cjko said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@shaun-durwin that's sad to hear
When it comes to it, it's all part of life... :/ If you don't get used to it or deal with it then it drags you down.
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@shaun-durwin said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@cjko said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@shaun-durwin that's sad to hear
When it comes to it, it's all part of life... :/ If you don't get used to it or deal with it then it drags you down.
Personally I'm not weak enough to go down due to such things. ;)that's the spirit! :)
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Boyyyyy
Let me tell you.
There were two guys, one was my bro (Ferny) and one was my crush (Jack).
I liked them both, we had fun, bit Ferny liked some pale chick and Jack liked me. We texted everyday, for hours and hours. He would compliment me, we ate lunch together, we had the same humor, we were perfectly matched and that was a lie,
fucking cunt face bitchafter the break, he tells me, "I don't talk to people like you" 😮😮😮,Then I ask, "What do you mean people like me?", I needed to know before I slapped him in the face for dragging me along for three months, " People who are cocky".
Excuse me
I stood there, stunned and to be honest,
Hurt.
We never dated and never have since, but that felt like utter crap, the kind where the ground was pulled from under your feet.
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@meccabanks said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
Boyyyyy
Let me tell you.
There were two guys, one was my bro (Ferny) and one was my crush (Jack).
I liked them both, we had fun, bit Ferny liked some pale chick and Jack liked me. We texted everyday, for hours and hours. He would compliment me, we ate lunch together, we had the same humor, we were perfectly matched and that was a lie,
fucking cunt face bitchafter the break, he tells me, "I don't talk to people like you" 😮😮😮,Then I ask, "What do you mean people like me?", I needed to know before I slapped him in the face for dragging me along for three months, " People who are cocky".
Excuse me
I stood there, stunned and to be honest,
Hurt.
We never dated and never have since, but that felt like utter crap, the kind where the ground was pulled from under your feet.
OMG! o.0 is this for real? haha :D
you don't deserve him. haha Did you slap him btw? and how about you and your bro? -
Yea and I'm not really sure if we ever been in a relationship tho(I guess we do? we never really talked about what's our relationship) I loved her and we're long distance, she drew me and we talked alot it was all nice and sweet until one day she just told me "it's a waste for you to be together with a girl, you should find yourself a good man", we both stopped talking and it was really hard for me, but I move on eventually
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@cjko .......
I usually like to keep a smile on ma face even though i will be crying deep down. i knew this girl who could tell if i was happy or sad by just talking with me. We were that close.
Even my parents couldn't see beyond the smile on ma face....really dont know how she does it.Everyday she waits for her parents to sleep & when its 12am she calls me and keeps me awake the whole night........i seriously dont know what we spoke but the conversations went like 7 to 8 hours daily......
Really miss her........Miss fighting with her......
break up wounds are healing fast...but really dont know why this wound is not healing......
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going through that right now, im beyond sad
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@kate419 said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
Yea and I'm not really sure if we ever been in a relationship tho(I guess we do? we never really talked about what's our relationship) I loved her and we're long distance, she drew me and we talked alot it was all nice and sweet until one day she just told me "it's a waste for you to be together with a girl, you should find yourself a good man", we both stopped talking and it was really hard for me, but I move on eventually
that's awful
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@noney said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@cjko .......
I usually like to keep a smile on ma face even though i will be crying deep down. i knew this girl who could tell if i was happy or sad by just talking with me. We were that close.
Even my parents couldn't see beyond the smile on ma face....really dont know how she does it.Everyday she waits for her parents to sleep & when its 12am she calls me and keeps me awake the whole night........i seriously dont know what we spoke but the conversations went like 7 to 8 hours daily......
Really miss her........Miss fighting with her......
break up wounds are healing fast...but really dont know why this wound is not healing......
everything is fleeting, same with that gloominess you are experiencing now
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@kay-nicole you'll feel good sooner
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@cjko Yes 😞