• @g-a did u edit ur comment Apu?!


  • @g-a Love is not a necessity. Especially sexual love. Celibates, monks and nuns exist don't they?

    I said "supposed to". I agree with you that we have come far from being a slave to nature but tbh Humans are animals when it comes to basic emotions that have been embedded in our psyche for survival.

    And yea good thing you're here for a healthy debate. I thought for a moment you're getting heated up 😁
    If you weren't the one who down-voted me, the manning up part wasn't meant for you.


  • @g-a I can't deal with others' perceptions? What makes you think that?


  • @tws-user yea da damn keyboard -_-


  • @g-a hmm


  • @kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    @g-a Love is not a necessity. Especially sexual love. Celibates monks and nuns exist don't they?

    I personally dont agree with that. There are a bunch of people needs "da sincere love" rather than "lust love" like that. We as hooman indeed has a "sexual desire" but it is not da things that we should do at first. We need compassion and unlimited patience before we do "in love" and do such "bonding and sexual desire" like that.

    It is not only happen in wooman, some men do have da same perception tho.

    I said "supposed to". I agree with you that we have come far from being a slave to nature but tbh Humans are animals when it comes to basic emotions that have been embedded in our psyche for survival.

    True, but again hooman is not equal with animals

    And yea good thing you're here for a healthy debate. I thought for a moment you're getting heated up 😁

    Heated up? Meh. I will be heated up when i have to face da coward like @Mr-H -_-

    If you weren't the one who down-voted me, the manning up part wasn't meant for you.

    Hahahaha. I never downvoted someone unless da election for global mods around a month ago.

    @g-a I can't deal with others' perceptions? What makes you think that?

    Coz you said i respect others regardless their opinion would you care to share da definition of this?


  • @G-A

    There are a bunch of people needs "da sincere love" rather than "lust love" like that. We need compassion and unlimited patience before we do "in love" and do such "bonding and sexual desire" like that.

    Speak for yourself 😛 Different people have different priorities. Not everyone NEEDS love. Don't overlook the forever single community xD

    hooman is not equal with animals

    Um... okay. This is off topic.

    I never downvoted someone unless da election for global mods around a month ago

    That's cool. 👍 Downvoting isn't the right approach. One must put forward their point and respect the other's opinion.

    you said i respect others regardless their opinion would you care to share da definition of this?

    I don't think it's that hard to understand 😅. People's opinions don't make them liable to be disrespected.


  • i think this discussion is going off topic, cant we just stay on topic please. some people are yet to experience love, so they claim that love doesnt exist and compare it to lust and etc. If love doesnt exist what is the basis of a family, i wonder. Love cant be explained but experienced. Just because you havent experienced something, doesnt mean that it dont exist.


  • @tws-user
    Agree with that man 😉

    Most of relationship failed because of the lackness of communication, no trust and comparing you or your partner with somebody else.

    As long as i concern, it was da main things.


  • @TWS-User

    Some people are yet to experience love, so they claim that love doesnt exist and compare it to lust and etc.

    Maybe that's it. But currently I'm pretty convinced with my opinion. Maybe it will change.

    If love doesnt exist what is the basis of a family, i wonder.

    Mother-child love (or father-child) is not being talked about.

    Love cant be explained but experienced.

    What th are we doing here then?😛

    Just because you havent experienced something, doesnt mean that it dont exist.

    Did i say it doesn't exist? 🙄


  • @Kana werent u tryin to say dat it doesnt exist?


  • @kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    @g-a said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    @kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    @g-a Love is not a necessity. Especially sexual love. Celibates monks and nuns exist don't they?

    I personally dont agree with that. There are a bunch of people needs "da sincere love" rather than "lust love" like that. We as hooman indeed has a "sexual desire" but it is not da things that we should do at first. We need compassion and unlimited patience before we do "in love" and do such "bonding and sexual desire" like that.

    Speak for yourself 😛 Different people have different priorities. Not everyone NEEDS love. Don't overlook the forever single community xD

    I AM SORRY BRO I AM KINDA HURT YOUR FEELING SINCE YOU ARE SINGLE FOREVER 😛😛😛😛 teasing him xD

    It is not only happen in wooman, some men do have da same perception tho.

    I said "supposed to". I agree with you that we have come far from being a slave to nature but tbh Humans are animals when it comes to basic emotions that have been embedded in our psyche for survival.

    True, but again hooman is not equal with animals

    Um... okay. This is off topic.

    OKAY 😛

    And yea good thing you're here for a healthy debate. I thought for a moment you're getting heated up 😁

    Heated up? Meh. I will be heated up when i have to face da coward like @Mr-H -_-

    Isn't calling him a coward being heated up?

    Hmm nope 😏 HE AVOIDED ALL OF MEH POST I GUESS SINCE I BLAST A MESSAGE TO HIM LIKE 8 QUESTIONS BUT HE NEVA APPEARED SO I CONCEDE HE IS A COWARD 😏

    P. S. MY KEYBOARD IS KINDA BROKEN I GUESS.

    If you weren't the one who down-voted me, the manning up part wasn't meant for you.

    Hahahaha. I never downvoted someone unless da election for global mods around a month ago

    That's cool. 👍

    @g-a I can't deal with others' perceptions? What makes you think that?

    Coz you said i respect others regardless their opinion would you care to share da definition of this?

    I don't think it's that hard to understand 😅. People's opinions don't make them liable to be hated.

    AWWWW KANA 😍


  • @tws-user hahaha. Dont hurt him bro 😉 he is a single foreva whispering


  • @g-a

    I AM SORRY BRO I AM KINDA HURT YOUR FEELING SINCE YOU ARE SINGLE FOREVER 😛😛😛😛 teasing him xD

    Who said i am? 😏 And people are hurt only when they aren't at peace with their choices.

    I think i can understand why @Mr-H avoided you 😜😜

    AWWWW KANA 😍

    😊😊


  • @kana and @cjko should be together aww yea


  • @g-a kana is 43! too old for cj!


  • @boodles

    I have a very particular way of seeing love and friendship. I don't always fall in love. In fact it's very rare for me to do so. In my 27 years of existence I've fell in love twice and I was lucky enough to have them love me back.
    Sadly the relationship didn't last and we eventually broke up but we started as friends and evolved to a couple but when we broke up we remained friends and I still speak to both of them till this day.
    The love bound for me is really special and important, when I love someone will be for life cuz, like @Kana said, if friendship lasts forever so can love.
    It's kinda hard for me to explain it cuz there's no real good way to express it tho words, you would need to get to know me and manage to understand me.

    @Kana

    You see, @g.a. has some sort of fixation for me and other users like @WtfJudith And @willow so he likes to come up with made up stories or half truths. I believe he is a nice guy he just lacks some common sense.

    @G-A

    I will have to ask you to clean your mouth when you mention my name to your mindless dramas and insanity.
    Let's go back to the start, did you ever dm me before other then when you bombed my dms with a bunch of questions? PERSONAL QUESTIONS should I add? I would have replied to you if you wanted to talk but as far as I know u aren't police and I'm not being investigated. So let me do what @WtfJudith didnt do when you started to molest her like you are starting to molest me. Get the fuck off away from me if all you want from me is involve me in your mindless drama. If you wanna be friends and get to know me feel free to dm me like any other user can dm me.

    Cheers!


  • @mr-h said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    @boodles

    I have a very particular way of seeing love and friendship. I don't always fall in love. In fact it's very rare for me to do so. In my 27 years of existence I've fell in love twice and I was lucky enough to have them love me back.
    Sadly the relationship didn't last and we eventually broke up but we started as friends and evolved to a couple but when we broke up we remained friends and I still speak to both of them till this day.
    The love bound for me is really special and important, when I love someone will be for life cuz, like @Kana said, if friendship lasts forever so can love.
    It's kinda hard for me to explain it cuz there's no real good way to express it tho words, you would need to get to know me and manage to understand me.

    @Kana

    You see, @g.a. has some sort of fixation for me and other users like @WtfJudith And @willow so he likes to come up with made up stories or half truths. I believe he is a nice guy he just lacks some common sense.

    @G-A

    I will have to ask you to clean your mouth when you mention my name to your mindless dramas and insanity.
    Let's go back to the start, did you ever dm me before other then when you bombed my dms with a bunch of questions? PERSONAL QUESTIONS should I add? I would have replied to you if you wanted to talk but as far as I know u aren't police and I'm not being investigated. So let me do what @WtfJudith didnt do when you started to molest her like you are starting to molest me. Get the fuck off away from me if all you want from me is involve me in your mindless drama. If you wanna be friends and get to know me feel free to dm me like any other user can dm me.

    Cheers!

    @Mr-H I think I may of said this before, but we seem to be on a similar (if not same) page about a great deal of things.
    I to wouldn't say that I fall in love as regular as other's. My reason for this is that I believe love is something that you grow into. The initial feelings of lust are a huge help towards the growth of love.
    My longest relationship didn't start from lust but it was founded on a deep friendship that had been the case for many years. I was the only person that my ex trusted due to how our friendship began.
    Sadly we don't speak these days because of the way that both of our lives grew apart. For the most part of that relationship I had no particular feels of love but our bond was always solid.
    You sir are lucky that you still communicate with your past loves.....something to always cherish.
    My belief is that love is more of a dependency on each other. Not to make you whole, but to be companions in every respect.... holding a mutual respect for each other and also being able to talk about anything without fear, even if that is something that may be a difficult subject for both parties.
    Looks help, but are nowhere near essential..... beauty comes from within.


  • @mr-peanut said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    My belief is that love is more of a dependency on each other. Not to make you whole, but to be companions in every respect.... holding a mutual respect for each other and also being able to talk about anything without fear, even if that is something that may be a difficult subject for both parties.

    Damn. That thing about addiction. I always use that with my gf's. I always have the need to act and treat them in a way that they get addicted cuz that's how I feel about the relationship.


  • @cjko
    We’re not prepared. We’re not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We’re not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We’re quitters. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us crumble to our feet. We don’t let our love grow, we let go before time.
    It’s not love we’re looking for, only excitement and thrill in life.