@lil_shouboutai If you trust in your inner goddess and truelly believe he can still change his mind and be yours, keep trying your luck in this convoluted relationship but as far as I can tell, he could just be flirting around with ue and just wanting to.......hehe:))) what is wrong with me lmao. Well, to such people, this is just another hobby such as watching Man U disciplining Arsenal🤣🤣🤣yah am not Arsenal fan I accept without likes and dislikes mehe:))) Arsenal fans I love ue all ok??? UwU💋💋. As I was saying... such a hobby truelly brings excitement and one can wait for it uneasily as if life depends on it but once it's done, you get back to other things that matter. Not everything is valued in a relationship although the thoughts of it brings a rush in your spirit and sometimes a smile you cannot account for.
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@spaceboy what is that? That is new to me.. I'll be glad to know what it is.
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@cel yeah.. kinda sad. But sometimes, there are things that must be kept within yourself. We do have secrets, good or bad.. but hiding something bad for the relationship will always be not good.
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@nycspilot hmm sounds optimist. :) Well, I like the way how you perceive things like that. But, what do you think is the reason to start anew?
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@green-archer true indeed. What do you think are the false perceptions? Well, I think it's about pretending and lying from the start of the rel.
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@cjko my girl likes girls...what do i do
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@cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3
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@cjko 3.
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@cjko i am back btw.
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@cjko I don’t think there is one definitive reason to start anew life and death are just known parts f life...we know things start and we also know they end and we are all just trying to figure out the best way to get through whats inbetween those moments
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@cjko Relying on your partner for your happiness
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@murdagangshit omg. Well, you should accept her decision. She just came out of her shell and showed her true colors. :)
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@cjko As wiki says:
The hedgehog's dilemma, or sometimes the porcupine dilemma, is a metaphor about the challenges of human intimacy. It describes a situation in which a group of hedgehogs seek to move close to one another to share heat during cold weather. They must remain apart, however, as they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp spines. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship, this may not occur, for reasons they cannot avoid.omg, I like this Hedgehog's dilemma. It explains why you got hurt sometimes.. It's just being part of the nature and part of being someone who does feel something. :) Thank you for this BTW
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@jessicagrant said in Reasons why relationships fail::
@cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3
hahaha thank you for this.. well, if that's the case.. how are you going to explain those couple who stayed in love til death ? :)
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@rendezvous 3 is kinda waste of time for me.. :D
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@nycspilot wow. yeah true.. you mean, this is the nature of loving.. you get hurt and love again.
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@giant-panda well, you can't blame that person who relies her happiness to that someone, because that someone is her source of happiness.
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@cjko but problem with this is that it may put too much pressure on your partner.
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@cjko i aleready mentioned the chemical reaction can stay for a lifetime , or just 1 day, it is random :3
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@giant-panda which is true