"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
There's no point in rowing alone. A relationship should be something that both work with. If one of the parts starts neglecting the other cuz they have something else to worry about, then it's the cue time to leave em be. If you don't, usually it means becoming someone u aren't and doing acting in a way u aren't. You start getting paranoid, possessive and feeling unsure about the other feelings and actions. LDR is the worst, i've been there and I hated it but it will work out if both row in the same direction.