Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
What makes you stay here in TWS?
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@cjko what if the process is status quo? am i to trust that too ?
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@barton hmmm you just have to be comfortable with yourself.. of who you are and what you are. If that won't work, maybe you can search of things that will really help you in line with your concerns. :)
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@cjko Hoping to meet some nice people and keeping in touch with the ones I've already met :)
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@justchatamy same here.. you know how it feels right? Having someone you can rely on and talk to when in times needed
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@cjko Cause it's fun, the random, unexpected talk always makes my leisure time joyful.
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@kushal-neupane that's great! well, yeah that's really true. hehhe
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Good question! Its been a week since i joined TWS and i found that ppl here are really amazing, crazy, fun,kind. It's good to know ppl from different parts of the world, have a peek in their life, let them peek in ours.
And the reason that makes me stay here is really special ❤ if that reason's taken away i might prolly leave this place. -
@cjko I just joined, we'll see how this goes. Seems like a good place to escape boring family life. Of cause i love my family but it's the same gray day everyday over and over again.
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@cjko said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
ME is good friends to talk to :) h
How about you ?
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There are really smart people on here …super duper smart . I learn from them every day .
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@naveen067 said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
There are really smart people on here …super duper smart . I learn from them every day .
Whatever you do in life, surround yourself with smart people who'll argue with you. ...
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@giant-panda said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
@naveen067 said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
There are really smart people on here …super duper smart . I learn from them every day .
Whatever you do in life, surround yourself with smart people who'll argue with you. ...
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@giant-panda Not whole life ,for a short period of time
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@naveen067 said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
@giant-panda Not whole life ,for a short period of time
@naveen067 said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
@giant-panda Not whole life ,for a short period of time
@naveen067 said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
@giant-panda Not whole life ,for a short period of time
@naveen067 said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
@giant-panda Not whole life ,for a short period of time
Without any context, what immediately came to my mind when you said "short period" was "a brief woman's menstrual cycle". What you probably mean though, is "a short period of time". ... a brief period of time. just a for while/ minute/ moment /second.
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@giant-panda A short period of time
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Been here for almost 3 months and I'm still going at it, the website was certainly different when I joined then it is now, but it's a constant cycle of change as ppl come and go, the general truth is that very interesting and unique ppl choose this website and that's what keep it interesting, obviously there's also that special reason that alot of us have here <3
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@mr-h said in What makes you stay here in TWS?:
Been here for almost 3 months and I'm still going at it, the website was certainly different when I joined then it is now, but it's a constant cycle of change as ppl come and go, the general truth is that very interesting and unique ppl choose this website and that's what keep it interesting, obviously there's also that special reason that alot of us have here <3
I like your answer ther sir .... very interesting and unique people chose this website, and that’s what keeps it interesting.
Couldn’t of said it better myself ( lol probably why I put a different answer ;) )
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@wildwallflower aww. Yeah that must be something special :)
Well, enjoy your stay here and meet more people to learn from. About their culture, beliefs, traditions, craziness, habit etc. :) -
@naveen067 yeah true indeed. Well, congratulations you found them. They are just lurking around here :)
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@giant-panda and who will guide you and protect you :)