Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
What makes you hide your identity here in TWS?
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@casualboy hmm ok. Mr.bornwithoutidentity hehehe
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How do I tag something so I can post on here
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@cjko are you asking me to judge you?
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@billydaz69 ask the @Global-Moderators :)
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@barton is that how you analyze my reply ?
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@cjko My identity is known to most of my friends.
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@cjko you asked what i think. arent i judging already?
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@cjko You kinda know something already
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@blue_nebula that's great! :)
so, you belong now to not that "stranger" community
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@barton hmmm is asking considered as judging immediately?
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@what-is-this hehhe so, you are not that "stranger" now :)
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@cjko Grumpy stranger hahah
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@cjko said in What makes you hide your identity here in TWS?:
@blue_nebula that's great! :)
so, you belong now to not that "stranger" community
hahhaExactly @cjko ! I am connected to most of them on other social media as well.
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@what-is-this hahha a slightly grumpy or a serious grumpy person?
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@cjko I think it's slightly grumpy hahah
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@cjko so there is a judging after? like d day?
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@blue_nebula that's great then :) Congrats!
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@barton hahha are you still in the game? you answer me with a questions/ ahhha
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@cjko so the game was supposed to stop?
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The internet isn't a very safe place. There are lots of good people on it but bad people as well. Just because stalking isn't that common doesn't mean it doesn't happen. All it takes is a little information about you or even just your face and people can find where you live. For that reason it's better to keep your identity private until you know you can trust someone. :)