love is amazing i fly in it.
Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?
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@Kiersen Interesting .. but
Loyalty cannot be imposed, it is an act of freedom in which a person chooses who or what to offer commitment, respect and interest to. Those who are loyal make a courageous choice, that of following their own moral principles and if you follow them, you cannot balance them, you cannot choose to be too much or not honest .. I don't think it can be quantified. If it were possible to balance it, we would risk falling into hypocyrisy .. and hypocrisy is contrary to loyalty.
Finally, being yourself is the only option I know .. because otherwise, with filters and masks you risk being a simple character, an extra ... more mask than person ... maybe you won't make many friends, but you will have those right. :) -
@Shardana dm me please. I wanna ask you something
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@Devriar here or in pvt?
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My husband cheated on me 22 years ago and I still cannot get over it at all.
He says he will love her forever more, but the stupid thing is I am still with him I must be mad -
@winolady Love is blind :)
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@Lolxlmao can u explain how is it blind ?
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@Lolxlmao idk why others do what they do but what we can do is not to have expectations so we don't end up getting hurt
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Disloyalty in a committed relationship is one of the worst things one human being can do to another human being. Not only have you wasted someone's time and effort, you've indulged yourself into thinking you can betray the very foundation of trust between one human and another. It is far better to leave a person, than to destroy a person like that.
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@Shardana hi dm me! its urgent.
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@Shardana dm Me please
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@Shardana what a wonderful question. It is so true! I am honest and have integrity and tend to stick by people no matter what. I often end up being the passive one, overly so, and it has lead to abuse in the past - emotional mainly, but sometimes financial and even physical. I think the more passive on is the more dominant the other becomes. It's not the case all the time, but is all too often the case. That is partly why some people being prone to abuse just for being ourseleves. Hmmm...
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Often people don't know how to behave and they do it the wrong way, sometimes intentionally .. usually those who love less are stronger, and they take advantage of this. All this, however, does not speak of us, but of the other. Those who love les often have unresolved problems with themselves and with others. In a relationship, any type of relationship people must be equal ... or you risk physical and mental slavery, no one must have too much power, you must be allies and accomplices, not masters and servants. Those who love you respect you, I think this, so at the first opposite sign, it is necessary to go away, to grow
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@Lolxlmao, every being in this world will be hurt in certain point, even un loyal people too, I guess u using this word "loyal" to give reason to feel self pity for yourself, drag about it because you can't let go , greedy I guess?? Also who told you to be loyal ?? R u ?? Or you want to prove yourself to your surroundings that you are loyal?? So you like a gossip about it writing a post like this with a pic,
oh yeah selfie would be better I guess?? More powerful... i think better just be honest with yourself and with relationship you build.. so that you can rejoice and enjoy the pain and have a wonderful experience