A question about relations...

[knownsense]

@Alicey2k well , choices I guess?? It's you choice you like middle Eastern men. You never experienced with indian male because you are not able to accept it as it is, brain is wired and not able to un wire it !! But I tell you choices with favour make a agenda can be racist and leads to racism .. so racist I do not know ??I can say hurtful words to people Make them feel like I am racist.. so I have a idea how to be racist!! But having a agenda with favours like dislikes ..putting into action is racist I guess ??

[Rachel Dawson]

@Alicey2k Racists suck this needs to end once and for all

[knownsense]

@Roman-Rules will not end at all !! I am Damm fucking sure !!

[G-A]

@Alicey2k thats not a preference. People have their own judgement. Dont you wonder why that guys suddenly decide to date black / brown only?

Afaik, when i was here around 2018 and i met lots of my niggas friend, they said that mostly white people turn down or even mock them for their appearance matter. I dont want to judge, but then i think it is true when i see how white ladies treat my niggas friend here. It is happening for asian too i g

You perhaps have different opinion and perception lady, but again not all people will be on your shoes and have the same perception as yours.

[Tyler The Ultimate Badass]

There is no shame in being confused. The whole thing is fundamentally irrational.

I have seen a multitude of arguments suggesting that it is racist for a white person to not be sexually attracted to a black person, or that liking specific physical characteristics is morally questionable in some way. As hard as I try to understand, none of them hold water.

My suggestion is that you disregard this entirely and move on. I would be happy to answer more specific questions if you wish, however.

[YourMomToo]

@Alicey2k people already knew mostly whites are racist, it's written in their forehead but noone can't see it until it speaks out.

[Alicey2k]

@Tyler-The-Ultimate-Badass Thank you for the response, when I posted this I didn't really think about it hanging around and people commenting on it months later lol. I have clearer thoughts about these things these days but oh well, clearly bothered me a lot at the time lmao

[Andy003]

What does your heart tell you? It's usually correct.

If a gay man won't date a straight female, is he sexist?
If a straight man isn't attracted to another man that likes him, is he homophobic?
If a black woman isn't attracted to white men in general, is she racist?
If a white man isn't attracted to Koreans in general, is he racist?
If someone won't date obese people, are they shallow?
What about women who identify with being male that will only date gay men? Are the gay men that won't date females who say they are males prejudice and/or sexist people too?
Is attraction even a choice? Most people say it is but, they're wrong.

Beauty is and always will be in the eye of the beholder. What I find beautiful is not at all the same as what other people find beautiful. I think the Isle of Skye is the most beautiful landscape I have ever seen. Someone else might say it's Peru. Another person might say Yosemite National Forest in California.

I've yet to find a person who completely agrees with me as to who I find attractive or not. It varies from person to person, the same as taste in movies, music, culture, scenery, architecture, etc. To each their own. If someone wants to sell themselves short by not dating one demographic or the other and they base that decision on nothing more than skin color, that's on them. Sucks to be them, too. I for one love the fact I am attracted to every type of woman under the Sun.

To go even further, if I found an alien from another planet attractive, I'd date her in a heartbeat if the attraction was mutual. If we fell in love I'd have no problem marrying her. If there was the chance we could reproduce safely, we would.

It's a weird conversation but I already know there are people who would never in a million years have sex with someone from a different planet unless they looked identical to people from Earth. So they say, anyway. Does that make them racist? I don't know honestly. I think it depends.

I'd say if I married an alien and one of my friends didn't like the alien as an individual, I would not consider my friend racist. But, if they didn't like my alien wife solely because she came from a different planet, that would be utterly racist. Prejudice only exists where fear exists.

I doubt this comment helped but, I tried.

[TM]

@Alicey2k Very good topic and great analysis btw . 1st and thats my opinion , racism is racism no preference to be said when It includes the whole thats bullshit . 2nd physical attraction Is normal and common but should never be the base of any relation cause as u said we can change that or accept It . 3rd and final the main priniciple of any relationship Is love and acceptance . Btw Ur question have more deep and important answers which I cant provide In english and I dont have the energy to translate It from arabic to english ... . Yeah I almost forgot to say that gimme ur ear : TM whispers some Indians are so hot lol

[Strapon_Hubby]

There's nothing wrong with having a preference for a partner's appearance. But it is wrong to immediately dismiss all people with those attributes without getting to know someone first.
I always preferred dark haired women yet I married a blonde. My brother is very tall yet married a woman who is quite short. My friend always wanted an Italian wife but married a Scottish girl.
It's best to be open to all possibilities.