Okay so don't get me wrong we all know I'm as flirtatious as they come at times, but I used to enjoy engaging in stimulating discussions, music reccomendations, anime lists, philosophical debate. It seems nowadays that in the absence of some mods this site has become truly sordid in like a creepily negative way. We all have urges and sexual desire and the fun of engaging and forming relationships with strangers in any level is a draw to why any of us are here. But if I see one more post of pedobait or men looking for illegally young girls, discussions about fucking your own dad, teenage girl pro ana posts or any other shit that brings literally nothing but harm to those that engage of it I am going to gouge my own eyes out. When did the fun have to turn into triggering disgusting behaviour and what happened to anyone with an ounce of intelligence?

Forgive me if I offend anyone, I am making this post to be educated as much as anything else because I am accepting of all people as long as they aren't an asshole.
So last night I was watching this random dating show on TV and there were these two homosexual black guys on there who when asked what they were looking for both said that they only date "black or brown" people. I understand, that is a preference, people have different preferences, however I can't help but feeling that if a white person were to be in the same position and say "I only date white people" that would be considered to be racist in some fashion; why is that?
I personally have no preference either way however I would say my personal preference is that I am not physically attracted to most middle eastern men, I won't say all because who knows I haven't seen them all, but generally Indians and such do nothing for me. I'm not gonna say "does that make me a racist" because I'd happily be friends with people of all colours and creeds... But why is it that white people aren't allowed to outwardly include race as part of their preferences? Are all "preferences" offensive in some way and why are some acceptable and others not? For example a man who says he like girls with big boobs could be seen as a misogynist yet I see soooo many girls these days who say "get lost if you're under 5ft8" which seems to be fine?! Is it wrong to assume you won't be attracted to someone based on factors impossible for them to change? Help me out here people I'm confused.

Jesus was a sound guy, I think a lot of the stuff that was done in his name in the centuries that followed might tend to put people off Christianity generally. Likewise most other religions too, their initials teachings are of good value but often skewed for negative purposes. Talking/discussing is different to preaching but not everyone gets that and are therefore defensive about trying to be converted

I'd love to always know what time it is without a watch or phone. Just think it would be cool if anyone ever asked to instantly be like "it's 4:23!" with zero hesitation

@The-Mods Tell that to the doctor and the pharmaceutical companies, or does this post only refer to "drugs" that happen to be against the law wherever you live? Everything is bad in excess, naive opinions included.

Everyone should just be themselves whatever that is or whatever makes them feel comfortable or happy. I think the idea of 'coming out' is one that's rooted in attention seeking rather than pride. Be yourself and fuck what anyone else thinks, teenagers have always tried to be unique or different but in a conformist way depending on what's on trend at the time, in my day it was pretending to be depressed and bisexual, very few of us actually were, some like me still are both haha. Still I don't see much point in making such a big deal out of someone not understanding because half the time that is the exact reaction they are looking for. #offendedforthesakeofbeingoffended

The fetus is in the womb. Delete this fucking shit. Beyond grim.

It's modern day ideals based on old world tradition of what a relationship should be that is the trap. I agree with Nick you need time to grow mentally to know what you want, and even once you know that you need to find a person that has the same ideals. Extensive communication is key which is ironically difficult for an online relationship to uphold. Sounds like frustration for the sake of a label

@Fuxking-idiot33 Thanks for the massive spoiler dicksplash

Depends how anxious you are and what it's about. There are lots of mental activities that will help retrain your brain to think differently. As already said meditation is also a great help. If it's an immediate fix you're looking for I'd suggest essential oils, incense, cbd

@APsychosPath RIP the legend

@The-Mods I never actually defended smoking weed, I was merely pointing out that you can't separate recreational and pharmaeutical drug use as both have the capacity to be abused, both have the capacity to be harmful or helpful depending. And I called your views extremist because they were railing at one side of something without any scientific or socially relevant evidence. It is not that I think you are a threat, it is that your views are based on preonceived notions and then that you feel it important to preach them in a very black and white way.

@sup read again, he clearly says any type of drugs. Also I'm not trying to sound clever, everyone knows how addictive and harmful some pharmaceutical drugs are, yet for some reason this post wants to whine about people smoking weed or whatever. You don't have to have braincells to see that OP's views come from extremism rather than logic.

@The-Mods Tell that to the doctor and the pharmaceutical companies, or does this post only refer to "drugs" that happen to be against the law wherever you live? Everything is bad in excess, naive opinions included.

@Fuxking-idiot33 She asked who your favourite character was not how the show ended

@Fuxking-idiot33 Thanks for the massive spoiler dicksplash

I have a wooden sign in my living room that says "Home is the best place to bee" it has bees on it

The fetus is in the womb. Delete this fucking shit. Beyond grim.

@Tyler-The-Ultimate-Badass Thank you for the response, when I posted this I didn't really think about it hanging around and people commenting on it months later lol. I have clearer thoughts about these things these days but oh well, clearly bothered me a lot at the time lmao

Challenge perceptions haha