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I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.
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@wildwallflower
Having been there in the past, you are right ... to be among people that make you feel alone (especially when they don't realize they are doing that) is one of the worst things this life can offer. :( -
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what if we are making ourselves alone with our behaviour? either we demand too much of people or too little. i have been called clingy and annoying. then when i stopped doing it i have been accused of avoiding people and was asked if i was ok and shit. i mean what if a person cant find the middle ground. what if he only knows both extremes. he doesnt have a value ?
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It is.Yes.Some people are just around you,but u always feel like they're not "with" u.And there could also be "one" person who can make u feel like u need no one else in the whole world.That one person makes a group filled with people for u. It's sad really :white_frowning_face: Anyways, my advice for that is...stop hanging out with such people n find others who can give u company.Best of luck to all who are facing this:relaxed: :+1:
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@barton said in I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.:
what if we are making ourselves alone with our behaviour? either we demand too much of people or too little. i have been called clingy and annoying. then when i stopped doing it i have been accused of avoiding people and was asked if i was ok and shit. i mean what if a person cant find the middle ground. what if he only knows both extremes. he doesnt have a value ?
If you have been friends with those ppl for a long time then they should be understanding with ur extreme clingy behavior, though there's a limit to that too. And if you're expecting that from a stranger there's no chance they'll tolerate that. Being extremist doesnt mean u have no value, maybe u need someone who can help u with these emotions.
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This is very astute. Some people dont exude love. Some tend to take rather than to give. Finding people who build you up, encourage and inspire you, that is our quest. Cheers to you and to friendships of great meaning as well as casual benevolence. :)
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@wildwallflower Yes. Your friends would understand, for a while. Then they would leave, minding their own business. Because people have better things to do in life and they may not always have the time and patience to tend to your insecurities. Even "the one" who had promised to
would leave. Then you are left alone and are forced to depend on total "strangers" you find on internet. Or you should have the courage to chose the path Mr Williams had chosen, except you had tried it already and are scared to try it once more. What better choice can you propose ? -
@barton if I had all the answers I wouldn't have been here
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@wildwallflower Egg greed. :)
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@wildwallflower relatable, sometimes every day, every face i see makes me feel that... but im not generalizing
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@sup ommg tysonnnnnn!
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Yeah, I know...
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It sucks, alot
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@wildwallflower shit's so deep, you can swim!
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@mr-pool said in I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.:
@wildwallflower shit's so deep, you can swim!
I know right?
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I relate to this
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that sucks for sure
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@wildwallflower Relate TT. I've been trying hard to make friends and fit in with them but really I just can't seem to relate or get the connection with them. Hence, I usually hang out with them and constantly on the edge thinking of preventing things that could upset or make them despise me. But you know there are just days where u just wanted to have them the ones to understand instead. Thus, I usually have this thoughts of wanting to be alone myself but can't stand it also because it makes me overthink things. :( However, one thing I learn about it is that we are alone when we we're born same thing when we die so, there's nothing really much difference with just being alne and being with my friends or other people's company. I hope you're doing well right now. Keep safe :)