Had sleep paralysis - while I was laying on bed trying to sleep and then suddenly i couldn't move my whole body and can't open or shut my eyes.it was like my whole body was frozen and then I hear some creepy sounds but i couldn't do anything cuz I can't move and I feel like someone was inside my room watching me and it felt like someone was pushing me down to the ground nd i couldn't even shout all I would do is lay down there for the time period ...its been happening for me for 2 years but now I got used it, and it comes very rare nowadays, i don't even care if it's a ghost haunting me cuz I've got a lot of things to worry now.but 2 years ago when it started I was so scared that I would even be awake for the whole night and run in to my parents room in the middle of the night everyday i thought I was imagining things but i was not i googled and saw some YouTube videos about sleep paralysis and it even freaked me out, let me know if any you guys had the same experience..
Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?
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@ragnar Its a mistake done by choice 🤓💃💃
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@ragnar it is a choice. If you love your gf, you wont cheat her. If you dont love her, stay away from her. Why? Are you considering to cheat your love @im-a-bae dude? :o not cool dude.
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I share the same opinion as @evan-elderson @Rendezvous and @humanbean89
Sometimes it's a mistake we choose to take cuz it's too good to pass x)P.S. Not saying it's right :angel:
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Sometimes you are FORCED into it. I was blackmailed and threatened by a boss/former friend/authority figure who was married into a relationship I didn't want but I kind of had to deal with it because I was homeless and they were my housing for the time. It is both a choice because you CAN and SHOULD have the ability to say no, but also a mistake because of the aftermath it could possibly cause...
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@g-a said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar it is a choice. If you love your gf, you wont cheat her. If you dont love her, stay away from her. Why? Are you considering to cheat your love @im-a-bae dude? :o not cool dude.
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@ragnar Both.
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@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
Sometimes you are FORCED into it. I was blackmailed and threatened by a boss/former friend/authority figure who was married into a relationship I didn't want but I kind of had to deal with it because I was homeless and they were my housing for the time. It is both a choice because you CAN and SHOULD have the ability to say no, but also a mistake because of the aftermath it could possibly cause...
You do realize that being forced into it is synonym of rape right..? Blackmailing someone is still rape. Even if you can’t say no, but didn’t want it, then that isn’t consent 🙁
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@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
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@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
He was cheating, yes. What’s even worse in this situation is that this wasn’t a consensual act.. I get that sex isn’t viewed the same way by everyone, but the thing remains that what he did was fucking wrong, to the wife he cheated on and to you 😕
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@wtfjudith said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
He was cheating, yes. What’s even worse in this situation is that this wasn’t a consensual act.. I get that sex isn’t viewed the same way by everyone, but the thing remains that what he did was fucking wrong, to the wife he cheated on and to you 😕
Thanks. I know...but I didn't want to be on the streets that winter...so.....yeah...
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@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
He was cheating, yes. What’s even worse in this situation is that this wasn’t a consensual act.. I get that sex isn’t viewed the same way by everyone, but the thing remains that what he did was fucking wrong, to the wife he cheated on and to you 😕
Thanks. I know...but I didn't want to be on the streets that winter...so.....yeah...
I understand, just hope you’re in a better situation now :)
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@wtfjudith mentally...sort of....physically...mostly....financially....fuck no... :(
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Cheating is both a choice and a mistake. Before you cheat you make a choice, and the "moment" you cheat you make a mistake.
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@g-a said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar it is a choice. If you love your gf, you wont cheat her. If you dont love her, stay away from her. Why? Are you considering to cheat your love @im-a-bae dude? :o not cool dude.
She just cheated me with @Hazard 😭😭 im so hurt rnow
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@ragnar I was only complimenting him BIG difference, that doe-
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@im-a-bae said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar I was only complimenting him BIG difference, that doe-
Why am I even explaining/defending myself, this is getting stupid :joy:Suuuuuuuureeeeeeeee
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@ragnar What? I can't even compliment a guy now.. jeez stop being so jelly :joy: