A day without the phone.
Would you rather options on lost friends........🤔
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@Lake-Bodom said in Would you rather options on lost friends........🤔:
i have no idea tbf but i experienced this multiple times i guess i just don't care after they disappear and i don't try to reach out
Naturally I have many friends that just disappear online but the circumstances in this situation are different than normal. Its hard not to care right now :((
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@Janet probably hard life and stuff nothing much , you don't have to catastrophize the situation i guess and if they were really good friends they will come back that's for sure ! hope they come back
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@Janet
I usually get easly attached to people. Talking to someone every day or weekly and then stop it's a bit concerning, especially if you talk personal things. You can worry a bit if you don't speak in a long time but you have to understand that sometimes he or she is busy and don't have time.
A friend of mine that i talked daily with him i started to talk a few days a week and now we talk once a week and have an long discussion, things we've been through.
I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to him, even if I didn't hear from him at all.If the last discussion I had ended on a good note, I wouldn't be very worried. I would be relieved because he is well and maybe something has happened in his life. Whether this is good or not, only he knows.A good question is how good friends you have been. A good friendship it takes time if you met online.
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@justB said in Would you rather options on lost friends........🤔:
A good question is how good friends you have been. A good friendship it takes time if you met online.
That's why I am sad. I do not want to go into detail on my situation but she is a great friend :))
Thanks for the response. I just wanted points of views on how people deal with. Trust me over the years people have disappeared but this situation is different and strange.
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@Janet A few years ago I was the leader of a faction in a gaming community and I had over 30 members. We all talked every day and got along well, we created a pleasant atmosphere and we became friends. Of the 30, I met a few in real life and tried to stay in touch with most of them. After I finished that chapter of my life, I was left with 5-6 friends, i'm not talking to them daily but at least once a week. I know what it means to lose friends. I still wonder about the others, that they are doing, how are they. I'm trying to get a hold of them, to contact them now but it's hard after a time.
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@justB haha damn same with the gaming thing so I know too. I have never worried about an online friend like this before... hence why I made the post.
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@Janet Maybe we start a Online Friends Loss Support Group :beaming_face_with_smiling_eyes:
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I lost a girl but only a friend we werent like dating or any but yea
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@Janet I don't believe so much in friendships nowadays so I don't get attached to anyone , but even If I do I would put the worst case scenarion as a possible outcome ... means I choose them not to be a true friend but ok as a human living his life safe and happy .
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Don’t worry. I’m alive 😊
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Selena just pulled a lame prank on all of us
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@Janet I would like to know the fate of that person, even if it's cruel xD
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@janet i'd rather have a friend be missing because they were hurt, because at least i know the reason, and i wouldn't have to blame myself or rack my brain thinking about her and why she left. since i know the reason, i can at least pray for her. having someone just disappear on you can do more psychological damage because all the possibilities and reasons can drown you and ruin all the good memories you once had. and the damage will stick with you forever, if it is constant, and it can change someone.
i didn't have a friend missing, but i had a friend treat me like trash even after telling them my secrets which they ended up spreading.
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Would you rather have that friend missing because they were hurt in an accident (meaning unable to contact anyone) OR they just disappeared and never said goodbye so maybe you didn't matter at all?
Hurt in an accident is better. Why? Based on my experience, having friend that never said good bye or they just disappeared like something never happened us, it is hurtful more.
That kind of friend will never admit that you have "memories" together. As we all know, memories are kind of treasures for some people. They as well will tell some stories from piecing of memories, then say that "it was my best day / the best day for us / our greatest day together as bla bla bla".
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@janet ok to answer your question i would rather not matter than sth happening to them. I have experienced this afew times in life and for women it's either a new man in their life or sth heartbreaking .sometimes you just arent useful anymore. Point is you wont know why and shouldnt try too hard since it's gonna eat you up
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The purpose of this topic has full filled. Now no need to keep commenting on it instead comment on my new topic. People r roasting me there T_T
