I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Sad and Miss my Ex is that bad?
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Still thinking about him?
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@0ADISOR0 yeah
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Hmmm. I think we do a poor job distracting you.
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What is u nicest memory that does not involve him😀?
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@0ADISOR0 lol there Idk
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You dont whant to share not idk😀
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@0ADISOR0 lol I can but I like every memory of him
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😀 then share one of those
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@0ADISOR0 lol no its ok
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You know best. So i wont ask again
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@0ADISOR0 thanks
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@Kina_Joy just curious but why do you think you cannot find anyone better...what, as in how far driving flying etc, long distance are we talking and with you all’s history knowing each other, time together etc you just decided to end it...could you not move there, can he relocate at a later time etc...seems like if distance is the only deciding factor that some remedy exists...sorry for all of the questions and prying but this is what these types of chats are all about...I have had to help several friends go through some messy divorces and breakups recently so maybe I am just being too pushy but good relationships are hard to find and are worth fighting for if their true substance is strong and solid then sometimes if it was not as it seemed or appeared and based on a more non significant level it can be best you cut your losses so to speak and move on...I realize you already know most of this stuff or have thought about it at length or experienced it firsthand but sometimes the people we think are our friends and or love us in reality are not and do not...it sucks but it is what it is and hearing it again can help...when anyone shows you their true self whether it be in friendship or a relationship believe them do not doubt...sorry for rambling but this helps me too I just ended a long time long distance relationship somewhat recently myself so I apologize in advance for the novel I just wrote
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Busy yourself sis
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@OrigBigSexy oh I don't know I just never met someone as nice as him
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@Yousef-Fares I try doesn't work
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hi to awll
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How Are You I Am Male
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@Vlad20 woww