I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Sad and Miss my Ex is that bad?
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@Kina_Joy you what happen?
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@escaflowne06 miss my ex
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@Matt_Aranha no your not its ok
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@Kina_Joy It will be fine in the end. Donβt try to get a boyfriend. Wait and be friendly with people. That will show the person you are meant to be with. You may even be a lesbian in the future, just let fate take its path.
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@CocoLillian lol thanks
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@Kina_Joy No problem π
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Hope you will feel better soon, sorry i didnt manage to help much...
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@Kina_Joy i see, we all do because they are someone makes us feel better and makes us special but she cheated on me with my college friends...
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@escaflowne06 aww sorry
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@Kina_Joy i'm ok now but don't be afraid to start over. It's also a chance to build something better this time
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It will come and go. Nothing says you canβt be pen pals not to mention who knows months or years down the road you two might reconnect! Iβve heard stories about people especially a WW2 vet meeting love of his life in Germany and after the war ended he got shipped back stateside and left her behind 10 years later he decided to try and find her and they ended up finding each other and getting married.
Not saying hold your breath or wait for something awesome
To happen ......just ....to not close any doors and see what happens. The world is filled with millions of people There definitely is someone else out there to catch your interest you just havenβt happened to cross their path yet.But yeah Iβve been there and it hurts a ton even after I found someone else it still hurt for awhile but life is to short to be miserable. And my new love helps by letting me talk it out and gives me a chance to make her happy. You got this! There will always be someone cheering you on.
Leaving you with one last quote
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I can help replace him!! if you wanna chat then text!!
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@Armaan-Sharma ohh wow. R u a spare tire? Hehehehehe
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@Kina_Joy missing someone will never a bad thing. It is okay to miss them.
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I miss my wife every single day. For what it's worth, it all depends on the situation.
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Itβs perfectly normal to feel sad after an attachment is made,but itβs important not to Dwell on the past not only is it not good for ur overall mental health it fogs ur judgement & u might miss out on someone who has potential to be amazing π, of course itβs a process as Iβm sure u will come across some who wonβt be so amazing itβs just part of life experience and as hurtful as it might be at times ur also gonna stumble across some people who you vibe with So keep your head up and ur options are endless good luck moving forward
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Oh its not bad but as he moved you need to make your self believe you nerd to move too
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@Doc-Brown thanks
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@Sunwukong I hope
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@HanzoHarashi Thanks for the input I appreciate it....