Lol there's lot like him in social media
mainly for the guys, but what do y’all find attractive in a woman( physically and personality wise)
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@Nimbus awhh that’s sweet 🥺
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@NatalieNastyy hi
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@peter1972 ayo
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@NatalieNastyy Hellooo
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@Jchiokwe ayooo
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Personality
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One word. Personality. Oh, and trust, of course.
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@SHAD0Wfm ofc trust one of the most important ones
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@NatalieNastyy a woman who is absolutely comfortable in her own skin, in love with the idea of herself, and fighting desperately for it.
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@NatalieNastyy DM me
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“You should date a girl who reads.
Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes, who has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she has found the book she wants. You see that weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a secondhand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow and worn.
She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.
Buy her another cup of coffee.
Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.
It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas, for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry and in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.
She has to give it a shot somehow.
Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.
Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who read understand that all things must come to end, but that you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.
Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.
If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.
You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.
You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.
Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.
Or better yet, date a girl who writes.”
― Rosemarie UrquicoReserved Space For Witty Quote To Make Me Sound Smart.
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@Zas that’s crazy deep 🥺
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@Zas who doesn't love a girl that reads? It's definitely a thing i notice. Cycling is another thing i look for too, actually got a whole.list of stuff that raises positive flags for me tbh lol
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@NatalieNastyy “The alchemist picked up a book that someone in the caravan had brought. Leafing through the pages, he found a story about Narcissus.
The alchemist knew the legend of Narcissus, a youth who knelt daily beside a lake to contemplate his own beauty. He was so fascinated by himself that, one morning, he fell into the lake and drowned. At the spot where he fell, a flower was born, which was called the narcissus.
But this was not how the author of the book ended the story.
He said that when Narcissus died, the goddesses of the forest appeared and found the lake, which had been fresh water, transformed into a lake of salty tears.
'Why do you weep?' the goddesses asked.
'I weep for Narcissus," the lake replied.
'Ah, it is no surprise that you weep for Narcissus,' they said, 'for though we always pursued him in the forest, you alone could contemplate his beauty close at hand.'
'But... was Narcissus beautiful?' the lake asked.
'Who better than you to know that?' the goddesses asked in wonder. 'After all, it was by your banks that he knelt each day to contemplate himself!'
The lake was silent for some time. Finally, it said:
'I weep for Narcissus, but I never noticed that Narcissus was beautiful. I weep because, each time he knelt beside my banks, I could see, in the depths of his eyes, my own beauty reflected.'
'What a lovely story,' the alchemist thought.”
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@NatalieNastyy We all would like to be seen, as who we truly are to ourselves. For anyone to even remotely come close to that aspiration, they would need similar understanding of life. That is the rarity of true understanding.
The more you know, the less others may relate to you, however the more you may relate to everyone else.
The more you know, the less they will understand you, the more you'll understand them.
The more you know, the lesser amount of those whom can truly love you, although the ones whom does are truly shining stars. -
@Zas stop being so deep ur making me soft 🥺
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@NatalieNastyy Haha, well. Good news everyone. That's the wonderful thing about 'love', or relationships rather.
No words may define it, it is what it is by itself inherent. One may try to put words into it such as 'love, soulmate, best', to claim some sort of hierarchy. Some sort of rating system.
Every relationship is simply just is, the reality of it cannot be mended or deluded by words, each individual knows exactly what the relationship is to their own understanding.
Thus, young love may not understand the true essence of a relationships, for they are young, they know little of sacrifices, inevitable losses, compromises. They know little of life.
Those lucky fools. Haha. We all may have those times. Eventually though, we find less relationships not so much because we get older, our definition of whom is worthy of our love changes, matures. Redefined.
Rejoice all, for most of us will have great love in our life. It's usually the young ones whom are questioning it, whether it will happen to them.
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I need a girl that will go on a crusade with me
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Not really a joke this time, but I really think of a personality of a girl definitely brings the stars down to earth for them/ that’s what makes them shine. I also have to say the body is good thing to look at too but that’s just hardwired into most straight guys brains as it’s just human nature
