Well, at least you've owned up to your behavior. You're not entitled to her forgiveness just because you see the error of your ways, but neither should your value be based entirely on the opinion of others. If you're truly sorry, you won't make this miscalculation again and maybe down the road she might see that you've taken this to heart and might be willing to rekindle your 'friendship' - or maybe not, but at least you'll know not to make the same mistake twice.
If you could change one thing about yourself...
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What would you change and why?
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@Kailee I would make myself perfect, cuz who doesn't wanna be
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@Kailee i wish i wasnt so selfish and always filled with jealousy cause its ruined my life and heart
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@Kailee and i would make myself to be nice
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@Genny That's a good answer, Genny. I was thinking about something along those lines, too.
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@Kailee ya lol i can litteraly feel my heart chipping away
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@Genny For some reason, I fear that most people are turning rather selfish these days. 😕 We could all be nicer, for sure.
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@Kailee ya i am nice and sweet but no one would let me
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@Genny No one lets you be sweet and nice to them?
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@Kailee yes but theres always drama
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@Genny Ah that's true. There's aaaalways drama. But you can choose to ignore it, if you can.
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@Kailee i cant
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@Genny Well, if the drama is online, there's always the Exit-button. 😄
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@Kailee yes but i gotta help im a nice loving person especially irl
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@Genny I used to be like you, it seems. But then I gave too much of myself to other people and I felt crappy all the time. We have to take care of ourselves, too, yanno? Being selfish in a healthy way is way better than being a doormat and letting people use you.
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@Kailee ya your right thank you so much
omg im crying now but anyway thank you so much -
@Kailee ppl r awful and take advantage or make u feel dumb and belittled.
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@Genny Aww, don't cry. Just make sure you think of yourself, too, and put yourself first occasionally. Listen to yourself and what you want. Other people can take care of themselves.. We don't need to be there for them 24/7.
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@Kailee omg yes thank you but im crying happy tears
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@pounds Yeah, but the cool thing is.. You can ignore them. They have zero power over you unless you give them the power. And really, it says soooo much more about them than you if they say crappy things about you. People are mean, but luckily you don't have to pay attention to them.