Am I right or wrong? BF angry about wot i wear...

[aliceohalice3]

My bf keeps getting really angry cos of wot i wear at home. He says its to revealing and "slutty" and no wonder my younger step bros are always being pervs towards me. He also says me dad is always staring at me and is pervy towards me. But i think my bf is jus super jealous. idk. help?

[Alex Lea]

Boyfriends are like that, they get jelous easily, try talking to him and get his point of view

[JustAguy36]

@aliceohalice3 hey! Well it's difficult to say as I'm not there so can't really judge. What I would like to know for clarification on this subject is how revealing is revealing? I know of people that walk in their underwear I front of there mom and dad which for them is normal. So I don't see any problem with it. But obviously I don't know the relationship between you and your family. So at the end of the day is do you feel uncomfortable wearing what you wear in front of them. If not you got your answer. If you do feel the slightest but uncomfortable then I reckon you should take your BF advice.

[Futushimo]

Yeah, well "I can't see everything in all this" right? 😂 Bad choose of words hah 😂😂😂
As JustAguy36 said - how much revealing, is revealing? How much of your body is out?
I can understand, something that in public - if I'm walking in a city with my girlfriend, who's got really short skirt, only some covers on tits, or just tits are popping out of t shirt - everybody will be looking! We MEN are simple beeings - of we like, what we see - we're starring at it 😂😂😂 But it's not very nice, if my girlfriend would be putting some slutty clothes in front of my friends...

But you need to see this, if he's reaction is toxic or not? I mean, is it with everything like that?

[Matt_Aranha]

@aliceohalice3 The language your boyfriend uses is very worrying and disrespectful to you. If he accepts you then he should be supportive of your clothing choices, not making shitty sick comments about your family perving at you. Furthermore, angry people are not healthy people to be in relationships with. It seems like he is trying to control you, maybe only with this at first but if you let him act this way where do you think it will end?

He needs to accept who you are and show some courtesy, or you need to find somebody who will be a more positive and loving influence in your life.

[Lheonardo]

I believe insecurity makes a relationship weak

[methy-anne]

@Matt_Aranha said in Am I right or wrong? BF angry about wot i wear...:

@aliceohalice3 The language your boyfriend uses is very worrying and disrespectful to you. If he accepts you then he should be supportive of your clothing choices, not making shitty sick comments about your family perving at you. Furthermore, angry people are not healthy people to be in relationships with. It seems like he is trying to control you, maybe only with this at first but if you let him act this way where do you think it will end?

He needs to accept who you are and show some courtesy, or you need to find somebody who will be a more positive and loving influence in your life.

Yep, honestly I would drop him now, and move on, that is no way to speak to a partner, technically that's domestic violence, a form or abuse, he need to take ownership of his behaviour apologize and change, bit I doubt he will, drop him sister, find a better
man

[badoldman]

I think he super jealous their giving you more attention then he is

[A Former User]

@aliceohalice3 the language he is using not right but at the same time.. isn't like that he cares for u and is over protective?