Monogamy is a social construct, people should be able to be in long lasting intimate relationships without having to pretend they don't have fleeting desires for other people.
Feeling hopeless and not knowing what to do
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@Rayse @Karina-Kara and @Yeah-I-guess
This escalated quickly ๐ can I join in the evil plan? ๐ต๏ธโโ๏ธ
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I am so sorry someone has mistreated you. No one deserves to be treated that way. I have been where you are now and I know it may seem hopeless but it is not. Give your self time to grieve your relationship. Ending a long term relationship is just like losing a loved one to a death. You will need to go through the 7 stages of grief. Once you have you will start to see thing in a better light. I am willing to be here if you need to vent and express how you are feeling.
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Now this is the crap I'm sick off reading... Good people getting hurt by the sick people with no god damn morals... U don't have to be a genius to figure out u shouldn't be with ur step parent! Sorry but society is pretty messed up... But I guess some things never change... Sex has run the world before god ever did... After all even he needed to make 2 of everything if that story is true... Swans, penguins, doves, a few things mate for life... Few people were made for mate for life... They are rare... And even rarer do they find each other... Good luck
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Dont worry play with me, i will give you best happiness... Come to my profile
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@Ema009 there r three hundred more women on the next screen pig woman no one wants it used up and ur r gonna be hanging bags soon lol at least prostitutes get paid u spread and squeeze them for free cause u r desperate for attention... U r ugly and u need all the compliments u can get. Get ur tots out of my face u look deformed
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@PenitentDuckling hey duckling you already did the hard part getting your ass out of there, hats off to you, that can't have been easy. Tou know yourself you are worth so much more. So now you are fucked up, sad and upset, probably will be for some time unfortunately but it WILL pass and you will be stronger for it. Hang in there til that day comes and keep your chin up buttercup, best wishes and all strength to you xxx
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@Ema009 fuck off cunt. I hate motherfuckers like you who even try to exploit the beaten and grief stricken. May you have haemmeroids the size of golf balls forever you lowlife piece of shit
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@Scottish this dirty cunt is everywhere in every post on every chat... God to be that ugly and desperate is a fucking sin... And BTW ur already starting to show sag
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@cant-breathe who me? Hey man I've had a hard life lol ๐๐๐
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@Scottish lol smart arse
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@cant-breathe are you british? That's too u.k. an insult for you to be from anywhere else!
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No but my daughter does a great British accent when she curses I watch to much Brit comedy and I like the international movies guess it stuck lol
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I can try to help i was also in a relationship for a long time and also married ...
so maybe i can say something to it ..
and my relationship also hurted me when she got to cheated on me so maybe you wanna talk it out in private helps you a bit more.
if you need someone to help you or talk i am theregreetings from Japan
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Hey @PenitentDuckling .We love you. An effort sharing this is an overwhelming depiction of your strength and courage. Any one who abuses, mistreats and
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@Earliy said in Feeling hopeless and not knowing what to do:
Hey @PenitentDuckling .We love you. An effort sharing this is an overwhelming depiction of your strength and courage. Any one who abuses, mistreats and
Is absolutly right ! it needs a lot of strengh to go throught this
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Hey @PenitentDuckling .We love you. An effort sharing this is an overwhelming depiction of your strength and courage. Any one who abuses, mistreats and uses violence are the weakest. Betrayal from a a source of love crashes your world, but the greatest power of love you harbour is your cure, don't lose it. Love yourself and prosper..you're awesome!!
Thanks @Hyde , I've seen a friend through the same scenario, it deeply scars..
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@Earliy yes u go also throught this and i know how it hurts and it left a lot darkness
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@PenitentDuckling โ Some believe it is only great power that can hold evil in check, but that is not what I found. Itโs the small everyday deeds of ordinary folks that keep the darkness at bay. Small acts of kindness and love โ. โGandalf lord of the rings
I feel like he said it best. No matter what crap life throws at you know that you are here on this earth so at some point someone loved you and cared for you and wanted you to survive and succeed. Besides we live in a world with untold billions of people, there is someone out there that has your interests and likes at heart you just need to sift through the dirt to find that gold!
Coming from myself that struggles with depression. The thing that reminds me to not end it is my family. No matter what stupid things Iโve done they always forgive and love me. Just think of something or someone who does that for you! And speaking of your screen name . โPenitentโ Is that a Indiana Jones reference? If so the best one was Last Crusade incase you were wondering!!! ๐
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Congrats for getting out! Well done. Please seek some help through a doctor to seek a professional therapist. I did. Best decision of my life x
