I lost my best (and only) real friend recently to suicide and now I don't know what to do with my life (M16 UK) Help! :(

[Benjamin Edwards]

I lost my best (and only) real friend recently to suicide and now I don't know what to do with my life (M16 UK) Help!

She was like a sister to me and we were incredibly close, but I am a social hermit and with losing her I feel like the only good thing in my life for 8 years has gone.

[BobbiWillBurn]

Mourn her. Let everything you feel about her rise to the surface, and live in that moment. Cherish what you had together, and feel sad about how this will follow you for the rest of your life. But do not stop living. Let it crash into you like wave after wave, until eventually it feels gentler. You'll always live with this, and I'm sorry. Just don't let it rule you forever, take the time you need to heal.

[Benjamin Edwards]

@Rayse this seems like really shit advise if you read my post...I am greaving for my best friend and am afraid to see anyone and you are just like "make some friends" f off... :'(

[AuroraFan]

Find another like you who has lost someone to suicide because you would both appreciate each other. Preferably your own age and sex just to eliminate any distance.

[A Former User]

Make some new friends

[A Former User]

@Benjamin-Edwards yeah whatever

[SteveRog]

@Bianca4u said in I lost my best (and only) real friend recently to suicide and now I don't know what to do with my life (M16 UK) Help! :(:

Mourn her. Let everything you feel about her rise to the surface, and live in that moment. Cherish what you had together, and feel sad about how this will follow you for the rest of your life. But do not stop living. Let it crash into you like wave after wave, until eventually it feels gentler. You'll always live with this, and I'm sorry. Just don't let it rule you forever, take the time you need to heal.

U r too good at giving advises
More power to u

[error-sans]

@Benjamin-Edwards oh my... I can’t relate but I wish you the best, and if it helps than she is probably happier now, whether she is just dust, or has gone to whatever type of heaven you beleive in. I have tried to commit suicide. Before. So I know how she feels. I wish you the best, and I know I’m nowhere near her, but I’m here.

[Scarlet04]

Oh :( so sad to hear it , My advice is this - If ur Frnd is in ur heart , u don’t have to be sad in his/ her absence because he/she is with u ( just b positive) hold ur frnd in ur heart so that he/ she will b with u till ur end :) ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[Space Græy Alien]

I'm so sorry, I really am. The only thing I can do is be here for you. I'm sure she was a great friend :(

[RoseStar]

@Benjamin-Edwards so sorry for your loss, you can cry it all out and talk more about it if you want to. I am also suicidal so I guess I know how your friend truely feels and its not easy indeed. It's also hard to express yourself since you said you are a social hermit but for me, I guess the best way to let your pain all out is to have someone you can trust to talk to. You have your family there to support you as well, maybe try to find someone too. You really need to talk to someone who is trustworthy and capable of listening and understanding all your hurts as it eases your pain. If things get worse, you can always seek help from a professional since they know best. I hope this helps.

[the maxwrist kid]

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[Futushimo]

You should let her go. She will be in your mind, whole life,I know it. Go to her graveyard, don't hold yourself. Cry. Let it all go. I think, talking loud, to her tombstone will help you too. Just tell her how you're feeling.

But don't close on new friends. Life is beautiful, and full of surprises. You're young too. Whole life is in front of you. You will find your best "mate" in your life, and it will be awesome.

Remember to stay positive. That's the most important. If you want to, then PM me from time to time if you want to talk to somebody

[the maxwrist kid]

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[brokenglass]

I’m here for you. That’s so fucking tragic, Rest In Peace.

[A Former User]

An advice is not what you seek now.
Or, at least, it is not what I sought when my woman died.
It's to have someone to scream at, to be mad at, for you can not get "mad" at someone for dying. At least I could not, eventhough our situations were radically different, for she did not kill herself.
And YES, I DID check my post BEFORE writing that part.
And ALSO, after writing it.
What helped ME, back then, what prevented me from doing things that would have made a very awful remake of some John carpenter's film while on a bad LSD "trip" look like a Looney toons Sunday show, was THIS: to have SOMEONE to scream AT.
So send me your insults, here, or by personal message.
Or take it up to some other, but, if it worked , somehow, and albeit rather uncompletely, it may work for you too.
PS: the PAIN? Get used to it. It never goes away, that bastard.

[PoPo159]

@Babsi where are you?

[HarryUrie]

I lost a friend. I know it'll be alright, but I'm not tonight, I'll be lying awake at all the mistakes I made replaying fights., I lost a friend I lost my mind maybe he made a little too much money to be 20 and sad,. How the hell did I lose a friend I never had

[riagan]

@HarryUrie at least get the lyrics right

[HarryUrie]

im not going to sit and write the whole song be happy with what you got