If you stop looking for a relationship, life will literally throw one in your face. But there's like a ton of places you can meet people gym, running club, work, zoo. Don't be afraid to go places yourself, smile at people and you'll be surprised at how many react. I met my first girlfriend in McDonald's, I was ordering food and she complimented my accent. (I have a thick Irish accent)
Reasons why relationships fail:
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expectations hurt the most
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@cjko 1. Online dating- some people take too seriously this kind of dating but most of the people date casually there. It's very difficult to put it in irl.
2. Dating other girls/guys (not only ex) at same time without her/his consent. And when he/she knows about it, the result will break-up. -
lies and trust
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Secrets.
Keeping a secrets.
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Maybe dont think of it as a failure but rather a reason to start anew
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Entering into a relationship for all the wrong reasons. When you have a false perception of the other person. That's pretty much why most of the relationships fail.
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@murdagangshit confuse about what? Hmm I'm not kinda relationship guru
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@mankyshanky true.. we should never expect and never assume to avoid disappointments :)
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@damncuteguy hmm number 1 is somewhat true to others.. but it really depends on the couple
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@ahmed-m-mabommed yeah.. cheat/lies and lack of trust.. Lack of trust is the result of being always cheated on and lied to
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@spaceboy what is that? That is new to me.. I'll be glad to know what it is.
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@cel yeah.. kinda sad. But sometimes, there are things that must be kept within yourself. We do have secrets, good or bad.. but hiding something bad for the relationship will always be not good.
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@nycspilot hmm sounds optimist. :) Well, I like the way how you perceive things like that. But, what do you think is the reason to start anew?
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@green-archer true indeed. What do you think are the false perceptions? Well, I think it's about pretending and lying from the start of the rel.
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@cjko my girl likes girls...what do i do
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@cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3
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@cjko 3.
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@cjko i am back btw.