Hi Folks.
How are you all?
An 38 yo indian male with anxiety disorder looking to make friends just to feel good and reinforce myself i'm not alone.
@what-is-this hahahaha at least it goes away hehe
@mr_peanut hahaha :D
well, anyone can be young at heart and face too :)
But your system in your body is aging. hahha
@cjko When I go back down my memory lane,there are few things that i have figured out which have kept me from moving ahead--
1)Getting things done at last moment- I have encountered many failures by thinking that a job can be done at the very last moment.
2)Confidence-Currently I am working on this ...and this is one important factor which can make someone achieve his/her dreams.
3)Laziness-another one which I would definitely want to change in me,and I am sure many would do.....
@sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀ hmm well, yeah thanks for the response :)
I think most people are also struggling with confidence. Hehhe You're not alone :)
Self esteem (i'm always the 3rd wheel in conversation. I don't find myself intresting enough to participate) Don't know if intresting is right word in that centence but did not come up better either.
Pessimism.
Skin tone or hair/bodyhair color (white hair, white eyebrows, white skin.. except mustache and beard is little bit ginger.. yeah thanks DNA go f* yourself.
I hear you with the hair/skin thing.... @valve
I just started to tan after years of looking like something from the walking dead.
an the hair ... omd :O people say sophisticated ..... I say meh!
@cjko said in What are the 3 things you want to change about yourself ?:
@sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀ hmm well, yeah thanks for the response :)
I think most people are also struggling with confidence. Hehhe You're not alone :)
I've Also been struggling with my confidence and social anxiety for so long.
@valve uhmm, well get sun more kiss :)
work on it , it's worth a try :)
@giant-panda uhmm, try to engage more on things like this. Try to interact more, slowly you will gain confidence. :)
@cjko i tought someone would say that, have you seen boiled crab? Tan = screaming red. Lol
@valve hahha oh no! :D
Hmm well, the best way to get over it is to accept what you really have. :)
@cjko said in What are the 3 things you want to change about yourself ?:
@giant-panda uhmm, try to engage more on things like this. Try to interact more, slowly you will gain confidence. :)
You're probably like me. You worry about interactions You keep worrying what the person might think about you if you say this, you say that, you do this, you do that, you look this way, or that way etc.
If all that is true, there's a solution.
Boost your confidence level.
@giant-panda yeah there is always a solution to every problem :)
@cjko lazy, more open with people/ my parents, take care of myself
@cjko same
@barton we'll work on this bro! :)
@its-bobby hmmm that's great then.. We'll work on this ! :)
Do it as your new year's resolution :)
@cjko bro? ouch!
@barton hahaha y ouch?
@cjko yeah i have to add them to be my new years resolution
even i know i cant fulfil them lmao
give up before fighting