How can I become less cold

[useless dumbasss]

So yes I can be a cold person and I have reasons for that but I'm just wondering because like I never cry anymore or I just like I don't care so how can I change that?

[dece]

turn heating up:)

[Matt_Aranha]

@Baby_Kina It isn't easy, but there are a few things you can do. I know you want to change, so try them and see what happens.

Reach out to people. Face your fears about opening up, and trust freely - but trust the right people.

When people reach out to you, let them. Instead of keeping them at arm's length, safe but distant, let them support and comfort you; lean on them. You'll have to watch for people trying to take advantage, but pay attention to their energy, their "vibe", and it will tell you what you need to know about them.

Recognise that it might be a slow process and you will likely always need time to yourself to reflect, but that you NEED connections with people; you MUST get out there and interact, find your tribe, the people who will naturally care about you without a second thought and whom you will care about too. These connections will take time to grow, and as they do they will thaw you out. You can nurture connections online as well, again if you find the right people to trust.

Isolation is no cure, and will only make you worse (even if there are other people physically nearby). Drop your walls, allow yourself to be accepted and loved (platonically and authentically). You've got this; you'll get there.

[useless dumbasss]

@Big_baine1998 lol your funny

[useless dumbasss]

@Alireza-iran Got it

[chewie]

Empathy is a difficult character trait to sharpen. It takes stepping out of your own shell (being vulnerable) and investing your own resources (time and energy) in another person. It is scary and exciting at the same time. Our hearts are fragile and need the involvment of others to grow effectively. The hard part is we can get hurt. Dont let the fear of getting hurt stop you from the blessing of letting others in.

[pjr]

Don't let others people's attitude turn you into a bitter person. It's all perception.

[Alireza.27]

@Baby_Kina you can do ot if you change the way you look at things and start sharing and opening up

[Big_baine1998]

@Baby_Kina
The easy way, is to add me on snap (big_baine1998) 😉
Other than that, eat plenty of leafy greens and citrus fruits. Citrus fruits have been proven to decrease heat loss in humans. 😌

[useless dumbasss]

@Alireza-iran Yeah thats kinda hard

[useless dumbasss]

@Karenluvsjesus it didn't sound cheesy it was really nice

[Alireza.27]

@Baby_Kina just do it and dont overthink it. When something looks hard just suck it up and do it and dont think about it.
Think about what makes you happy. And what you like. And just remind your self why you are a good person. Everyday do one thing that makes u feel like a better person.

[Big_baine1998]

@Baby_Kina thanks babe, you're real cute. So how about that add?

[simron quinn]

@Baby_Kina by being warm wear a hoodie on ur heart

[AllAboutGay]

@Baby_Kina By practising homosexuality

[useless dumbasss]

@AllAboutGay haha ok

[bvzpt]

@Baby_Kina girl i have the same problem 😂
Let me guess u lost someone important?
I dont rlly know whata tell you tbh but "try being soft. Don't let the world make you hard. Do not make pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness take ur sweetness away"
And if ppl be saying why u so cold hearted blah blah blah they should know that you were once a person who cared a lot. Ik this sounds kinda chessy but ida know!