@Rissa_TheBest nice song💕
What is it you really don't like in a partner?
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@petrapark3r one thing I don't like about my S.O is that he often tends to keep up the hard conversations saved up for later...I really hate that about him. It's okay to keep putting off hard conversations in order to keep the peace and harmony in the relationship however doing so always brings up bigger problems for us later and we end up fighting...which could've been easily avoided by talking things out. So yeah I really hate the I'll solve this out later attitude
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@petrapark3r
Familiarity breeds contempt. Or so the saying goes.
I would say that it's relatively true.
I don't sweat any of the little things possibly with the exception of not listening and pretending that you are.
Dishonesty is my number 1 on things that I don't like (and will not have) in a relationship.
I don't care how bad the news is I would much rather be told by my significant other rather than hear it through the grapevine. -
@wet-teri said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r
Familiarity breeds contempt. Or so the saying goes.
I would say that it's relatively true.yea, you never realize how annoying a person can be until you live with them under the same roof...
I don't sweat any of the little things possibly with the exception of not listening and pretending that you are.
Yeah, in the end we have to bear the little things like a sacrifice of love.
But the big things, yea, they can really hurt. About the listening: I believe to be a good listener, like you can get from me 100% attention, you'd love it. But there are also moments where my brain just flys off into neverland and i dont know how to control that. I guess I should warn othera about it...
Dishonesty is my number 1 on things that I don't like (and will not have) in a relationship.
I don't care how bad the news is I would much rather be told by my significant other rather than hear it through the grapevine.Agreed. Fully. Personally.
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@petrapark3r
I don't guess you are anywhere near Louisiana and in the 35 to 60 year old bracket are you? -
@wet-teri said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r
I don't guess you are anywhere near Louisiana and in the 35 to 60 year old bracket are you?Nope, very sorry. Also I'm male and straight if the question is pointing in that direction. But I don't limit whom I listen to by sexual preference, so if I'm ever near Louisiana, I'll let you know :hugging_face:
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@Anastasia-Smith said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r one thing I don't like about my S.O is that he often tends to keep up the hard conversations saved up for later...I really hate that about him. It's okay to keep putting off hard conversations in order to keep the peace and harmony in the relationship however doing so will always brings up bigger problems for us later and we end up fighting...which could've been easily avoided by talking things out. So yeah I really hate the I'll solve this out later attitude
Yeah, that attitude can be a real problem for every relationship. And it makes things much much worse...
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@petrapark3r
I'm close to Mississippi and hope to be moving home to Texas soon so please do. We can do lunch or whatever. -
@petrapark3r hairy armpit.
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@Leoweirdo said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r hairy armpit.
Seems to be out these days, hmm, hmm :thinking_face:
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one word Vanity
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@petrapark3r
👏👏 Not washing their bloody hands after they took a piss 👏👏
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@petrapark3r
When they are boring / cold / not a 80.
I like extreme, crazyness and some sort of cult love. If it's not exciting, excessive and crazy then It would never work :shrug: -
@Lurker said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r
When they are boring / cold / not a 80.
I like extreme, crazyness and some sort of cult love. If it's not exciting, excessive and crazy then It would never work :shrug:That's not exactly the small things though :shrug:... What's a 80?
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@petrapark3r
You are right :sweat_smile: Kinda got sidetracked
Ever heard the expression you are either 8 or 80. Take it as intensity, an 8 is someone not so intense and crazy and an 80 is someone crazy and intense :p
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@WtfJudith said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r
👏👏 Not washing their bloody hands after they took a piss 👏👏
Like wth, that’s basic hygiene ffsUh yeah, you are so right! That is disgusting...
Did you know that rinsing your hands with cold water for 15 seconds kills almost all bacteria? Even without soap...
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@petrapark3r said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@WtfJudith said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r
👏👏 Not washing their bloody hands after they took a piss 👏👏
Like wth, that’s basic hygiene ffsUh yeah, you are so right! That is disgusting...
Did you know that rinsing your hands with cold water for 15 seconds kills almost all bacteria? Even without soap...
In that 15 seconds you’d have more than enough time to put soap XD
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Someone who cheats, ofc.
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@cjko said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
Someone who cheats, ofc.
is that a small thing you don't like in your partner? :joy::yum:
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@WtfJudith , ewww, put soap, as a health care worker I can say you absolutely need soap. This has been proven over and over and the number one way to prevent the spread of infection is PROPER hand washing.
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@petrapark3r oops! Ok, that's the biggest thing..
Well, I don't like it when someone not mentioning me something that I need to know. May it be friends or something..I don't like it also when that "someone" curse or say bad words most of the time when I'm around..