@ALTERNATE-KINGS hii! im Sam :)
Would you let your best friend date your EX?
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@cjko yep if she do so then she is not :joy:
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@Saloniii I see. so, you wouldn't let this situation happen
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@cjko nope not at all if this gonna happen then she has to choose me or my EX
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@Saloniii hmm yeah, the best way to do (imo)
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@cjko
Why not?
Just think that why do we fall in love with our 'ex' in the first place?
Because we are attracted either to them or their qualities and then our likes and dislikes matches and a bond is formed.
Now, to think that you broke up with them bcoz of their fault may not always be right.
So unless they're a sureshot dichead, our bestie deserves a chance with them if they're feeling the bond.
Stopping them by blackmailing 'em for our friendship isn't wise.
They've the right to make their choice, nah? -
@Wolfie_11 have you heard your self? It sounds like you belong to those labeled persons.
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@cjko
Seriously? What made you think so?
Are we all not entitled to a chance?
We're prone to judgements and sometimes they do turn out to be wrong.
There are various reasons why we break up with our ex.. and unless its something not related to cheating/treachery, I see no bad in letting my best friend to go through with their relationship. -
@Wolfie_11 yeah , you are entitled to that opinion. We have different perspective too and that for me is not ok.
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@Wolfie_11 will you not feel "betrayed" after all?
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but will you let your best friend eat the food you already threw away?
That is a disrespectful way of referring to your ex which they deserve only if they have actually been bad in their relationship with you. Not everyone can be compatible with everyone. Even if it didn't work out with you, there is no reason for you to let that affect future possibilities.
The real question here is, have you moved on from your past relationship enough to let your bestie find happiness with your ex? -
@Kana haha assuming s/he cheated on you lol
yes to your question. -
@cjko
Not if its a mutual decision to separate from my ex.
And otherwise, it might be awkward at first.. No denying that. But with time, it will become alright (for me). -
@Wolfie_11 well it is up to you.. so, you will let this situation happen, that's your answer. No further discussion for that
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@cjko
Okay.
What about you? Would you not let that happen?
Would you do that with your ‘every’ ex just because one of them turned out to be a-hole? -
@Wolfie_11 ofc , I care for my best friend .. I want best for her
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@cjko
Damn.
So you’ll deprive your bestie of the services of your ex.
Cool. Peace 🤙🏻 -
@cjko yeah. And it’s also just petty. Billions of people in the world and you choose the person I dated?😂😂
I also think it truly depends on the ex. If it’s an ex I still have feelings for and my best friend knows, then it’s just down right rude. But if it’s an ex that I couldn’t care less about, then I don’t care who they date, even if it’s my best friend. However, at that point I wouldn’t want my friend to date them because they were probably a shitty partner and I want my best friend to have a good one 😂 -
@Wolfie_11 You stole my answer 😤😤😤😤😤😤
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@BustDownKatiana
Still better than stealing your bestie. :smirk: -
@cjko its up to them, but I can be a good chaperone. 😂