@TM I'm not even going to dignify those questions with a response. For someone who claims to have a purity-oriented mindset, you seem pathologically obsessed with my sexual life, which is far less varied than you credit it to be. I wouldn't be surprised if your fascination with dicks (prosthetic and otherwise) reflected your actual inclinations.
First of all, people don't stop noticing attractive people just because they're in a relationship. That's perfectly natural and has nothing to do with your looks or your partner's ability to remain faithful. However, one thing is to steal a glance at a passerby, another is to gawk or give them a lingering stare, which makes everyone involved uncomfortable. You've already brought up the subject, and he's made no effort to accommodate your request. Are you willing to tolerate this behavior in order to preserve a relationship where you feel disrespected, or will you break the cycle? Nobody can make that choice for you.
@TM This is a forum where people communicate with strangers, so presumably, when you're calling out RK13rk on requesting help specifically from former addicts, you're referring to the exclusion of an average netizen who hasn't had firsthand contact with drug abuse, not trained psychiatrists/physicians (fat chance finding them here), least of all, their friends and family. There's also not enough information for you to infer that they haven't already sought medical/social support.
@TM People can only meet you at the depths at which they've met themselves. Because they've had the same experience, they are likelier to comprehend what this person is going through and how they got themselves in this situation. Therefore, they are more qualified to offer advice on overcoming this struggle than an uneducated outsider, no matter how well-intentioned. Their counsel will come from a place of understanding, not empty platitudes, misguided observations, or surface knowledge.
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My takeaway is that you're pursuing a long-term relationship with someone who's not ready to commit due to deep-seated mental issues. Are you emotionally equipped and willing to take this arrangement for what it is rather than what you want it to be? Everything that you've mentioned till now seems to be indicative that you aren't. Keep in mind that there's no quick fix, and the situation isn't going to change overnight (if it ever does), so you can either adjust your expectations or leave while you still are on good terms.
She informed me of a guy that he manager at her job is trying to hook her up with and she told me she wasn't interested but because of the no official " label" of her and I she tells the dude she isn't interested in dating him. But the guy is persistent and keeps showing up to her work and texting her and because we aren't really official but she basically treats my like a significant other Im in a position where I don't really have any say over the whole thing.
Your ladyfriend's acquaintance refuses to leave her alone even though she's manifestly turned him down (saying you're not interested should be enough for someone to back off, mind you, no need to make clear you already "belong to" another guy). This is not a call for you to step in like a knight armed with jealousy. She should reach out to HR or get the authorities involved.
@TM I guess this is my fault for allowing myself to get caught in a semantic argument. The word 'natural' has several field-specific meanings, none of which are pertinent to this context. If you decide to switch the standard definition for one of your own preference ('according to, or preserving the earliest structure of an object', instead of 'happening in nature, as opposed to man-made'), you must make it known beforehand, in order to prevent equivocation. Besides, by picking that particular meaning, you've managed to categorize mutations and the entirety of human evolution as 'unnatural', which perhaps wasn't the effect you intended.
Dick is for the pussy like key and lock but noooo you want dicks to enter where the shit goes out ! You want the pussies to rub eachother ! You want to kill reproduction
As for that, sex (or genital rubbing, as you would describe it) has other purposes than reproduction, including but not limited to building intimacy, finding pleasure or stress relief, or exerting dominance. You are well within your rights to believe that our (only) purpose in life is to continue the human lineage, but that's incredibly reductive, and, dare I say it, fucking sad.
@TM Kindly walk me through your thought process, as I can't imagine what led you to such conclusion (I'm definitely not reading an entire wiki article on the subject).
@TM The point is that 'natural' means ocurring in nature, as opposed to manmade. You don't get to redefine words in order to back up your argument. Just because a behaviour deviates from the mainstream trend it doesn't make it intrinsically 'unnatural' or 'immoral'.
behaviour of their species that turn out to be straight by default for over than 90% so it is a proof of minor sexual activity
That's factually incorrect. Male giraffes, for instance, have been shown to engage more in homosexual intercourse than heterosexual. Both male and female bonobos are bisexual, and 60% of their sexual activity happens between two or more females. Truth is, animal sexuality is much more diverse than you consider it to be.
@xmeowx22 You seem to compliment their behaviors a lot, have you ever met one in person?
If not, how are you so sure about their good qualities?
