Its not easy I tell you. But you can do something. It wont be easy nor painless because believe me, it will be more hard and difficult to face the facts. But hey, you just really have to be strong enough to pull yourself together at this point.
Do everything you can to win him back it doesnt matter if your doing it over and over, dont stop as long as his also giving in someway, meaning he still wants you to help him hang on for both of you, BUT, if you feel like your the only one doing the things for both of you, and yet your hurting at the same time, just keep doing it, over and over, (you may call out friends for support, that is a big help in this stage) that time will come to you, when you can say your tired and you couldnt feel any pain anymore. That would be the time that you can just walk away without care. That moving on is just right there. Youll be alright after all that. Im sorry for what happened to you. Hope youll end up happy whatever it is you feel like ending up and have a peace of mind.
Break up heartache
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My partner decided of all days on my birthday to break up with me. We have a 13 year old kid so he decided and I agreed we will still live together for him. This happened so sudden I dont know how to feel. I cried the first night played cool during the day because of our obligated duties during the Christmas holiday. Today is day 3 and I'm sad and my heart hurts I want to cry but my tears wont budge. He is now officially moved into the spare room and I'm sure my son knows or had an idea of what's happening this is what really hurts me seeing our son notice this happen. We are going to live together but be separated. I just dont know how I'm going to get thru this I cant sleep and force my self to eat. Freaking 16 years! How do I get rid of this heart ache with him down the hall? We agreed he will stay because of our son and financial reasons, and also he says this is his home he doesn't want to leave. I need help finding ways to ease this heartache please.
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It is yet too early to get any clear view of the future. Don't worry about it too much. For now just talk about your pain, as you are doing now.
That really is a horrible choice of date for telling you. Have you got anybody supporting you, like your mother/father? You must feel so alone right now.