@sarcasm I'd say not, but then my background includes the theatrical and pagan communities both of which are very tactile and huggy. I see why some people would consider it cheating but so long as my partner wasn't hiding anything and there were no agendas I wouldn't have an issue with it.
I read a great article recently about how it is primarily straight western male culture which has this aversion to platonic cuddling. You look to the Russian ballet schools and to the guys there it is perfectly normal for them to huddle together for warmth - and these are huge, hulking beasts of masculine energy. Or how in many far eastern cultures school ages males are growing up just as comfortable hugging and sitting on each other's laps as their counterparts.
The article went on to hypothesise that this aversion is directly responsible for two of western man's most toxic traits - i) the misassociation between sex and affection, along with the inability to express affection through alternate means, and ii) possessive jealousness over a partner's tactility with others, especially other males but even other female friends. Because they have been so touch-starved through their lives that once they get a partner in their life who they can touch, they don't know how normal touch should be and cannot process it.
" You are a pack wolf definitely
you are a normal pack wolf you go with the flow and fight when it's needed you could survive a Lonewolf life if you wanted to but you love your pack and don't want to leave you would join any pack if they wanted you to join and you are very strong fierce and brave. "
I believe what you live and learn in your life kinda defines who you are. Ofc there are exceptions in life and the "base" personality of each other is a big factor to this and that's exacly what differentiates each other. Take this example... someone that went tho a very harsh and painful life can become a person that is extremelly understanding and helpful since life was a bitch to him/her that person just want to try and make others life better BUT, the opposite could also be the case and he/she can become someone bitter and shifty to give a taste of what life gave him/her to others.
So I would say that our core, defines how we react and become after "shit hits the fan".
Hmm. Good prose, good tempo. No skips no stumbles. Was this way as it was first imagined? If True you got me beat! What was the thought behind "leave these beautiful people " what are beautiful people?
@wildwallflower It's the only unbeatable hand in a poker game ;)
I been playing poker for a number of years now and I only ever had one other.... Since I been playing on Pokerstars... this was my first for the site :D