If you could go back in time and tell something to your younger self. what would you say?
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if i could go back to my younger self and tell her something it would probably be , Be alert and strong cuz nothing matters more than you yourself. there will be hurdles but just dont give up.
And i would have danced with myself and given me a pretty good time. cuz i had my first solo performance when i was in kindergarten and i had to dance but anxiety got me and i just stood still. so id probably go make myself dance too! -
I would probably advise me to ignore people who talk behind your back and have a little patience while handling certain situations.
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@AllAboutGay i sooo expected that from your side lol!
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I would teach him things from my past experiences, not to be an naive fool, instead of caring about others you should care about yourself, and never stop learning something new, it's ok if you're alone you don't need to have fake friends, or somebody's attention and appreciation, people will always let you down but it shouldn't stop you (i would write my thoughts in a book and lessons that I've learnt, and highlight my weaknesses and mistakes and solution and give it to him) this world is the worst place, and life is not a fairy tale, be realistic and always be prepared for what coming next, life will never easy for you.
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If I could go back in time and tell something to My younger self, I would tell him that getting dropped out of college is the worst experience you could ever had. You aren't able to help your family much. You would have to lie to every job seeker that you didn't have your college certificate because you have a unpaid college fee.
Dear younger self, being adult sucks hard. and I don't even know how am I able to survive up until now. Sometimes I hate myself, but sometimes I'm glad that I've experienced this just for the sake of motivation and encouragement from your friends and families.
Dear younger self, please take care of yourself.
Sincerely,
Your future self -
@spundermNg that is a very good balance of gain and loss. Be proud of yourself! Keep up.
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@Aimee Thank you. I'm still trying to brace myself up.. hopefully it will get better sometimes 🥰
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DON'T WORRY about girls, they aint what theyr'e hyped up to be, carry on grafting!
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@Aimee why we have to regret past life? 😅 move on, just live in future. Even if you can change time to come back there, well it wont change lot of things.
I'd prefer to live in present. No need to change my past life.
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@G-A it's not about changing the past. The question is what would you tell your younger self, what advice you'd wanna give to your younger self. Just like telling telling toddlers about always being strong and all except that imagining a situation where its the younger you.
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@Aimee younger me never exist 😅 as i know i cant change my past. It is what it is. Everything already happened, right? However, i can do advice the younger sister / brother / cousins to not repeat the same mistakes like i did.
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I don't have anything ln mind rn to tell my younger self .. that's a very hard question for me !! let me think ... ... ...🤔 the problem is i can't remember my younger self clearly but I was pretty the same on a lesser level of attention yet i was more focused on some stuff compared to now but now I'm wiser and more clean from inside like I had some dark thoughts back then I would tell myself to be more at peace with myself and manage my anger more i guess ..
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@Aimee what I would say is 'hey lil me! Go jump of a bridge!'
Cuz what's the point anymore? -
@AllAboutGay does it count if I'm pansexual
And transgender (he/him) -
@ImEsspresso point is to be there for yourself and not giving up. Start living!
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@Aimee awww thanks
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i'd tell myself that i wasn't fat. it may sound stupid but i grew up thinking i was. looking back now i realise i needed to put on weight. feels weird knowing that in the moment i was fully convinced i was superrr overweight.
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@Aimee I'll tell myself "Be realistic and stop overthinking, do what you love to do and that you do not have to always follow what others wants you to do and what you have to be. Just be carefree and keep things that matters to you only. Make friends but keep only those who are truly good to you and give the same effort as you are to them. Moreover, do not dwell to much on every mistakes you make. Instead practice more, put effort and work hard as much as how you want it. Also to never forget to appreciate and say your thanks to people who helps you in times you're down also to people who are sincere to you. I would also like to advice myself to be responsible for the things or actions you make. And to stand your ground.
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That my procrastination was a defense mechanism. I didn't like my life at the time, so I escaped into "another world" by playing games and watching tv. I'd tell myself to change my life to suit me better so I don't procrastinate instead of just escaping it and being disconnected from the real world.
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- dont trust people so easily
- people around you are mainly hypocrites
- the people around you won't stay with you when you really need it
- treat you brother/family differently, talk to them more, don't argue
- don't go telling your personal feelings/secrets to 'friends'
- don't worry about exams, do your research more, study hard and stay healthy.
- don't worry. after all those experiences, you've found someone who is willing to listen, someone who took your insecurities away.
- YOU'RE DOING WONDERFUL, COMPARED TO SOME OTHER PEOPLE. JUST BE YOU.
- thank you, for all those experiences you've gave me, thank you for perservering on.
