@Freud Sure!!! Join the club! But be nice!
What to do if your family rejects you ?????Help??????????????Please.
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@Jeosha-Frazee You're welcome. And keep talking about it. Remember it's not you, it's them. You'll find a lot of empathy and support on here. I've always had difficult relationships with my family. It used to eat me up but i learned to live with it. It becomes a way of life. Humans are remarkable creatures, we can adapt to anything if we have no choice
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Family you do not choose it's given from universe to protect you or not to feel alone, when you needed most. What ever you are now it's your past experience, that even includes family, they love, you love them thats the universal truth but liking it or disliking it it's you choice.
Now you appreciate it what you gained from them all, you have to do is breathe let it go observe.
Easiest way is to forgive yourself and You no need to feel regret or guilt, that make you not to move forward all you feel pitty and sadness for yourself leads to depression..
Have a wonder day!!!
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@Jeosha-Frazee You've read one side. Now read another. I am a family member that has rejected a parent. My aunt is family member that has rejected her sibling. My brother, grandfather, grandmother... Sometimes it isn't about us, sometimes it's about you.
My parent has lied, cheated, stole, and hated. Begged for forgiveness and then comitted the same crimes. Spent hours using guilt to sharpen their tongue. Spat cruel words and left mental scars. So tell me... how can you help someone that doesn't want help? Who only wants what they want and to hell with everyone that can not immediately comply tinto bending to their every will. Why did we eventually cross the line and say no to this individual?
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” - Albert Einstein
No one knows which story is yours better than you. The biggest advice I can give to you is; you need to communicate with your family and find what is the root of the treatmeant they are currently giving you? Maybe there was a misunderstanding among you guys. Find a way to come to some conclusions. Perhaps they are wrong and you are right. Maybe that is blue to you and indigo to me, but that doesn't mean one of us is wrong. You just need to figure out that middle ground of understanding one another.
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Thank you
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Work on your flaws, that maybe the reason the hate you. ❤
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What ever u r now it's Ur past experience negative or positive, good or bad, morality or immorality,truth or unthruth it's just pure situation.
U learn and gain knowledge with experience Ur past knowledge which is dealt , dealing the dealt situations, repeatedly do not make sense in my brainIn my surroundings all I hear about the failure memories, discuss about it, to keep busy in mind,regreting feeling bad and pitty for the self, all it does stop growing or knowing the self.
wondering about could have should have, would have, connecting past memories to future illusion, forgeting about preciousness of now
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Thank you
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What ever u r now it's Ur past experience negative or positive, good or bad, morality or immorality,truth or unthruth it's just pure situation.
U learn and gain knowledge with experience Ur past knowledge which is dealt , dealing the dealt situations, repeatedly do not make sense in my brainIn my surroundings all I hear about the failure memories, discuss about it, to keep busy in mind,regreting feeling bad and pitty for the self, all it does stop growing or knowing the self.
wondering about could have should have, would have, connecting past memories to future illusion, forgeting about preciousness of now
Breathe , observe, let it go and be wise respond without like and dislikesWhy like this ??
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@Jeosha-Frazee
No mention happy being, I am glad it helped you
Cheers mate -
Thank u from the bottom of my heart
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@Jeosha-Frazee
Feelings it's just a sensation, comes and goes away every moment ,holding to one particular moment and go crazy is it make sense ?? -
Sorry happy beings I am very new to this chat zone and I really do not follow much for now , who gets what text to whom ??
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@knownsense I agree. What you gain in experience does have a tendency to shape you into the person you become. Sometimes you live and learn, but sometimes you learn to live. It all depends on what you choose for yourself. The past does not hold me back and the future is uncertain. It is best to concentrate on now, because that is what is immediate and it requires most of your attention.
There is nothing I regret. Everything I have ever done has taught me something. I am no saint. I have sinned many times, but I regret nothing. I have failed, I have lost, I have destroyed friendships based on miscommunication, but I am not responsible for how others feel nor will I ever command such ideas. It is not my duty to make you smile, it is not my responsibility to make you feel a certain way. Only you can command such emotions of yourself and only of yourself.
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they aren't your "family" then.. and I hope you can find your real one
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@wiinierox thanks
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@NewtTrouble I am glad to hear that you do understand and know that you are all alone in this, and you only responsible for your own actions.
you are master of your own creation..all happy being do understand and realise it for momentary.
brain is wired so much because of our surroundings condition rules and regulation and give choices to choose not with free will being aware and consciousness.
We all need to analyse the realisation that's the knowledge hold through informative knowledge which is borrowed , experienced one is like hard way of learning and all will do learn in over of time , fast and quick to re-engineer yourself deconstruct the wired brain and analyse the realisation..to grasp and to undersyand to be responsible to not to take responsibilities..Why like this ??
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@knownsense thanks
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I have a thought about family.
I know that some sense can make of it may be non sense or sense how ever you take it in your brain.
my parents had sex and it's a fun cause for them never thought that I will be effect,
Science say hundreds thousands of sperm will be travelling toward the egg and one fittest one will enter the egg..
There are case survival is fittest start from mother womb we kill our own sibbling to survive, we get birth gift a name,a relegion, a sect, with out our choice.
Even our parent don't want to admit that they didn't think we will exist, accept as it is not with Thier Consciousness and free will with awsreness, because of fear of Thier image created by themselves through Thier surroundings they give all of it and pose all the failure ideology of Thiers forcing toward us not giving space to breathe and think for my self Al they think that it's better for us because they are elders forgetting that I struggled to gain this human form with awareness and free will,having Consciousness to choose.
2+2 is 4 can't be 5 universal truth, same way attachment create love towards parents and child..
I do not choose them with my choice its given ..
Comman sense is not for all being , it's hard to deal with fellow who dont have any.
it would be stupid to deal with people knowing myself that they don't have any sense to understand, making them understand is waste of time.. better for me to accept it without like and dislikes and it's wonderful -
@knownsense thanks
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They are not real family. Just wait until you find the real ones. And if you have a place to go then burn down their house with you outside and them in it! People should accept people for being them!
