What to do if your family rejects you ?????Help??????????????Please.

[Jeosha Frazee]

Thank you

[hypatkesq]

Work on your flaws, that maybe the reason the hate you. ❤

[knownsense]

What ever u r now it's Ur past experience negative or positive, good or bad, morality or immorality,truth or unthruth it's just pure situation.
U learn and gain knowledge with experience Ur past knowledge which is dealt , dealing the dealt situations, repeatedly do not make sense in my brain

In my surroundings all I hear about the failure memories, discuss about it, to keep busy in mind,regreting feeling bad and pitty for the self, all it does stop growing or knowing the self.
wondering about could have should have, would have, connecting past memories to future illusion, forgeting about preciousness of now
Breathe , observe, let it go and be wise respond without like and dislikes

[Jeosha Frazee]

Thank you

[knownsense]

@NewtTrouble
What ever u r now it's Ur past experience negative or positive, good or bad, morality or immorality,truth or unthruth it's just pure situation.
U learn and gain knowledge with experience Ur past knowledge which is dealt , dealing the dealt situations, repeatedly do not make sense in my brain

In my surroundings all I hear about the failure memories, discuss about it, to keep busy in mind,regreting feeling bad and pitty for the self, all it does stop growing or knowing the self.
wondering about could have should have, would have, connecting past memories to future illusion, forgeting about preciousness of now
Breathe , observe, let it go and be wise respond without like and dislikes

[knownsense]

@Jeosha-Frazee
No mention happy being, I am glad it helped you
Cheers mate

[Jeosha Frazee]

Thank u from the bottom of my heart

[knownsense]

@Jeosha-Frazee
Feelings it's just a sensation, comes and goes away every moment ,holding to one particular moment and go crazy is it make sense ??

[knownsense]

Sorry happy beings I am very new to this chat zone and I really do not follow much for now , who gets what text to whom ??

[NewtTrouble]

@knownsense I agree. What you gain in experience does have a tendency to shape you into the person you become. Sometimes you live and learn, but sometimes you learn to live. It all depends on what you choose for yourself. The past does not hold me back and the future is uncertain. It is best to concentrate on now, because that is what is immediate and it requires most of your attention.

There is nothing I regret. Everything I have ever done has taught me something. I am no saint. I have sinned many times, but I regret nothing. I have failed, I have lost, I have destroyed friendships based on miscommunication, but I am not responsible for how others feel nor will I ever command such ideas. It is not my duty to make you smile, it is not my responsibility to make you feel a certain way. Only you can command such emotions of yourself and only of yourself.

[wiinierox]

they aren't your "family" then.. and I hope you can find your real one

[Jeosha Frazee]

@wiinierox thanks

[knownsense]

@NewtTrouble I am glad to hear that you do understand and know that you are all alone in this, and you only responsible for your own actions.
you are master of your own creation..all happy being do understand and realise it for momentary.
brain is wired so much because of our surroundings condition rules and regulation and give choices to choose not with free will being aware and consciousness.
We all need to analyse the realisation that's the knowledge hold through informative knowledge which is borrowed , experienced one is like hard way of learning and all will do learn in over of time , fast and quick to re-engineer yourself deconstruct the wired brain and analyse the realisation..to grasp and to undersyand to be responsible to not to take responsibilities..

[Jeosha Frazee]

@knownsense thanks

[knownsense]

I have a thought about family.
I know that some sense can make of it may be non sense or sense how ever you take it in your brain.
my parents had sex and it's a fun cause for them never thought that I will be effect,
Science say hundreds thousands of sperm will be travelling toward the egg and one fittest one will enter the egg..
There are case survival is fittest start from mother womb we kill our own sibbling to survive, we get birth gift a name,a relegion, a sect, with out our choice.
Even our parent don't want to admit that they didn't think we will exist, accept as it is not with Thier Consciousness and free will with awsreness, because of fear of Thier image created by themselves through Thier surroundings they give all of it and pose all the failure ideology of Thiers forcing toward us not giving space to breathe and think for my self Al they think that it's better for us because they are elders forgetting that I struggled to gain this human form with awareness and free will,having Consciousness to choose.
2+2 is 4 can't be 5 universal truth, same way attachment create love towards parents and child..
I do not choose them with my choice its given ..
Comman sense is not for all being , it's hard to deal with fellow who dont have any.
it would be stupid to deal with people knowing myself that they don't have any sense to understand, making them understand is waste of time.. better for me to accept it without like and dislikes and it's wonderful

[Jeosha Frazee]

@knownsense thanks

[Ticci Toby]

They are not real family. Just wait until you find the real ones. And if you have a place to go then burn down their house with you outside and them in it! People should accept people for being them!

[NewtTrouble]

@knownsense Sometimes I forget that not everyone has the same freedoms and strengths that I do. I wanna believe that everyone is capable of progressing as an individual and can think for themselves, but sometimes I fail to understand why this isn't possible with some folks.

Many factors go into such a fantasy and if you come from a country that shames you for having your own thoughts and punishes you for wanting to reach out and learn without fear of being judged, it makes it even more difficult and can be difficult on both people trying to make a connection. Different cultures clash when they are raised and taught differently. Only through careful communication can you hope to learn without being accused of being bad and wrong or scaring each other away.

The more I communicate with others, the more fond I grow of this song. I wish more people would have the strength to speak up. Too much is done for the wrong reasons because no one dares to speak up.

[knownsense]

@NewtTrouble well I ask you who do you live for ? And who else is exist than you ?? Sometimes it's better do not speak your mind and better speak what other have to hear from you it's well for a situation to deal with, without any complications with your surroundings

[NewtTrouble]

@knownsense I would be lying if I told you I didn't live for myself. I'm the only one that has always had my own back and I will only take care of myself before I am capable of helping others. I don't ask for anyone to care for me. I am my own responsibility. When I am confident with myself, only then, can I be confident in aiding those in need. I am not alone in my endeavors, I do have friends, if I reached, they would help me, but I am a prideful fool.

I lack the deisired empathy towards humans, but there is one that I would lay my life without question. That is my younger brother. I've bled for him, sheltered him, took the heat (negative energies from others; physical and emotional), I've stolen so that he may eat. I lifted him when he was down, and I will stand by his side with honor. I raised him to be the man he is today, and there is no greater sense of pride and happiness than to see all his progress.