do you find people interesting over internet or irl ?
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I also want to encourage everyone here, to take the opportunity that this community gives you (maybe if need be even create a new account ;-) if that makes you feel safer) – and share with us things you wouldn't share otherwise. Try to be as honest as you can be. This way we can all learn something about life from you and with you.
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In all honesty I believe online world changed so much in the past years.
We used to go into chatrooms, to create characters and just roleplay all around it.
Even in games, they were meant to be someone u weren't IRL, a new persona.With the arrival of social media, online and IRL started to merge more and more, which brings us to the reality we are in now. Even in TWS, which is supposed to be a place you talk with "strangers" became an open plataform where everyone knows each other in a deep way, and they present themselves as their "real" them.
Personally the ppl I met online are as important then the ones I have IRL cuz they are all part of the thing I call LIFE.
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@Adyyan both r great but I like ppl virtual world more..I'm not close to ppl in irl as much as I m to ppl in TWS.. explains why @Bela-Hella is my sis in here..have never loved any of my sisters like I love her <3
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@DarkIce said in do you find people interesting over internet or irl ?:
@Adyyan both r great but I like ppl virtual world more..I'm not close to ppl in irl as much as I m to ppl in TWS.. explains why @Bela-Hella is my sis in here..have never loved any of my sisters like I love her <3
A love I found in you, sisterly love..you are always love by me,my little darkazana.. :-)
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@Adyyan Finally not the typical TWS topic. Depends, I've met interesting people on both sides. I would always choose a real conversation over an internet one but the diversity of the internet gives you the opportunity to find people with common interests, plus it costs less money and time to do so.
@pe7erpark3r Facial expressions always betray people, to me it's much easier to associate an attribute to someone whom I get to talk to in person, still good point, if only it was called "real life" so people would be real. Also, you should try making some topics, I'm done seeing all these "it's so cold I can't take a bath" or "he has AIDS" topics.
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Thanks @Spoofer I appreciate that.
Yeah the face is not everything, especially because people tend to try to hide their real feelings. But the closer you get to your own emotions the clearer you just get the feeling of the other person.
Maybe we should start a social network that rewards anonymity in name/age/looks but focuses on being real in all the ways where it really matters...
Topics become interesting if enough people contribute. To get people to contribute requires getting people to notice first. I only have 2 followers so I fear that what I write won't get noticed. I wonder if that's just my insecurity talking?
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@pe7erpark3r Do not fear of it being left unread, and followers are not truly important here, if you are friendly, you get plenty of them. Also, topics don't really need more participants, just a good topic, think of it as being a blog, all you would need is a good idea. And enough time haha.
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@Adyyan People over the internet just appear to be more instresting because they put up a facade, people irl can’t do that and we’re able to see right through them. I think both ways has some people that are interesting and people that are not, you just have to know how to pick them out
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@pe7erpark3r that's just your insecurity if your topic is optimistically amusing enough it will surely get noticed ! it doesn't have to rely on followers ! really appreciate your views tho thank you always for taking part in topics i post :D :grin:
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I find it harder connecting with people irl, probably because Im so insecure I find it hard to be myself.
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@Sofie-Eggersfelt and how about virtual world ?
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hmm it depends really..
nice and awesome people are everywhere. You just have to be one, to get one! :) -
@Sofie-Eggersfelt I think I understand you.... You're an introvert.. You probably don't like to confront things that you don't approve to people in real life.... Because it's kind of too much work for... Am I sounding close to how you feel.?
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For me it’s sometimes both but then you also have the boring ones lol
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@Adyyan said in do you find people interesting over internet or irl ?:
TOPIC OF THE CENTURY, now alot of us are going to act like we have the perfect life but wait what are you doing over here then?
My thoughts exactly. Normal people instagram and tweet. Not "tws". Tho exceptions are there.
Ffs would like to hear truth coming from different parts of the world, Personally i'm here spending lot of time, should be enough to denote that i meet amazing people over the virtual world then irl!
I think it's because people can express themselves better with well thought out answers online. And we don't have the same kind of conversations irl that we do on here.
That's what brings out a different side of the person to light in chats.
Also, introverts, who are smart and cool people (usually) can be found here and hence this increases our probability of finding interesting people online.irl money and greed are taking over, that's just how it's at my place wby ??
You talk as if people offline and people online are different somehow. People will be people. We can't generalize.
So yeah interesting people can be found anywhere. For an introvert like me, I find them online.
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@Adyyan internet
WHAT YOU READ ABOVE IS NOTHING BUT PURE GOLD☝️
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@Spoofer said in do you find people interesting over internet or irl ?:
@pe7erpark3r Do not fear of it being left unread, and followers are not truly important here, if you are friendly, you get plenty of them. Also, topics don't really need more participants, just a good topic, think of it as being a blog, all you would need is a good idea. And enough time haha.
The social networking would work, but in order to do so, you would have invite people rather than them finding the community.Thanks for the encouragement, I'll give it a try the next time I have nothing to do ;-)
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@Kana I wish I could give that post 3 likes and not just one.
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@pe7erpark3r said in do you find people interesting over internet or irl ?:
@Kana I wish I could give that post 3 likes and not just one.
Aww lol thanks. Glad you like it :)
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@Adyyan
I wrote this coz may be last time we talked, you wanted to ask such questions..
PEOPLE ARE AMAZING FOR NO MATTER THEY ARE- Your enemy could be your good friends after da drama ✔
- Your good friend could be your enemy after da drama ✔
- You can be stright, gay even bi in the same time ✔
- You can pretend to be another person either in this website or real life ✔
- You can love someone you dont know better after you flirt/wink that person ✔
- You can be blind because of love ✔
- You can cheat on your gf/bf ✔
- You can be friend with all of people for whatever they are ✔
So? Do i find people interesting irl/online? Both. The only problem about online is you cant see them irl only, the rest aint big problem :3
