@Alireza-iran mine is
•people who clean the board and there's still a little bit of marker stain on it.
• people who ask "where last did you put it" when you're looking for something (don't they know I would have checked if I remembered 🙄)
•peole who walks too slow in front of me
• people who uses my things without permission (just because we're close doesn't mean you can't ask 🙄)
• people who uses abbreviations for everything, like; "I c u" wtf?? Just type "I see you" you won't die😭.
•people who lie for no reason
•people who are extremely loud for no damn reason
• people who tries to be perfect
• girls trying to impress guys by being rude/mean
•people who chew loudly
How does a person walks away from all of the memories?
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@cjko you don't need anyone to fix your broken soul. It's not anyone's duty to do that. Rather you and only you are responsible to lift yourself up. This world is very cruel and very harsh. People come in and go but remember never attach yourself to someone who doesn't love you back. But yes, I know it's easier said than done but trust me. This is the best advice I can give to anyone. And I wish I followed it too.
Destroy Racism Be Like A Panda
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@obviouslylucifer haha wow. Are you a love guru ? hahha well, yeah.. that's what I did.. I just ask something like that to know what you did too :) hmmm you are absolutely right. Well, accepting what already happened and gone is the most effective way to walk away from those memories. Set them as a reminder that you have to be wiser in the next journey. Unload the heavy ones so that, it is easier for you to move on. It's like packing your things for a vacation trip somewhere, the main goal is for you to be happy, but you carried a lot of unimportant loads which really stressed you out at the destination. :)
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@giant-panda hhahaha true.
Yeah, in love.. you have to leave something for yourself. Don't give all your 100% love to anyone. We can not beat the fact that everyone will hurt us.. it is just a matter of who is worth to compromise and fight for. -
@cjko said in How does a person walks away from all of the memories?:
@obviouslylucifer thank you for this :)
But what if that memory is tooo much to walk away from ?Contrary to popular belief you don’t have to hate someone you want to forget. Hating someone puts them at the centre of your life, and doesn’t let you forget them. The key is to shift your focus away from them instead. Lies you don’t need to tell yourself if you don’t believe them already include:
“I never loved them.”
“They’re evil.”
“I was too good for them.”
Instead tell yourself, “Everything has its time. I’m happy for the good times I had with a certain individual. The time for that person in my life has now passed and it’s time to look forward.” -
@giant-panda aww :) thank you for this. :)
yeah, harboring bitterness and holding grudges will never ever be a good idea for me. But I do ignore them, LOL like they're nothing once I moved on. :) -
@cjko said in How does a person walks away from all of the memories?:
@giant-panda aww :) thank you for this. :)
yeah, harboring bitterness and holding grudges will never ever be a good idea for me. But I do ignore them, LOL like they're nothing once I moved on. :)@cjko Life wants to say that LOVE and TAKE CARE to "YOURSELF" first...
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@giant-panda yeah I will. Thank you :)
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Magnificent wording, I didn't know the devil was so good at giving advice :smirk:
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@cjko some memories are unforgettable,remaining ever vivid and heartwarming..It is hard and Im not sure how to walk away from good memories good ones always stay in my heart and I smile once I remember it ; but if the memories are bad then its unlikely to be treasure, I turn away from it and never look back..Spit it,Phew! To that bad memories
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@valve hahhahaha ok :)
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sometimes your heart knows not what your head warns. I've been in and out of love before and you manage to shake it off eventually, but theres always that one person, whose to close to you for the memories to just fade, but too far away to make new ones with.
Holding on to the same few memories seems sad because day by day you begin to forget minute details until you can barely remember it.
sometimes you wish you hadnt met people who treat you badly in life, for me, i wish i hadnt met the one person I fell in love with, because its just too hard to forget she exists.
pardon the essay, just wanted to vent.
Craig
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Its not the memories they are walking away from,it is the situation,,your memories are forever.no one can take them away,and you cant "walk away from them:
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@cjko by Time will slowly eat your memories. There will be a time when you will forget even your name.
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In moving on you have to remember one thing
Just because you love a person doesn't mean you have to stay. Maybe it's because you love them but you continuously hurt them with your actions or maybe they love you but they know that you deserve better. Nevertheless staying is a choice because it is an action word he or she made a choice and so should you. You can either do it and fuck up the whole thing or you can do nothing and let it fuck you up instead
