Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
I was thinking overthinking :(
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The're trying to drag me down..
The're trying to make me frown..
The're trying to build new theories..
The're trying to create false stories..I don't know why I'm overthinking,
Trying not to let them get into my vein.
But hell, here I am thinking in vain.
All I want now is to vanish them again.Never ever think of them , I wish.
These made me close my eyes in anguish.
Burning bridges will never be a great experience
and will never ever be a good thing to practice.Cjko -_-
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Reminded me of something:
Dreaming a thought that could dream about a thought
That could think of the dreamer that thought
That could think of dreaming and getting a glimmer of God
I be dreaming a dream in a thought
That could dream about a thought
That could think about dreaming a dream
Where I can not, where I can not
Less morose and more present
Dwell on my gifts for a second
A moment one solar flare would consume, so I nod
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@robinnotthehood thank you for sharing this. Profound indeed. :)
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@cjko ”
You need to realize that only action will change your condition.Even if you’re trying to map out a plan for action, you still need to take action.
Reason being is that new ideas and thoughts don’t come out of thin air.
New ideas and solutions come from action!
It’s a simple mental formula that you need your brain to adopt.
Can you do something about whatever you’re overthinking?
If the answer is yes, take action.
If the answer is no, that thought is banned.
Literally yell at your thoughts as if they were a naughty BNBR violator on TWS.
“YOU’RE BANNED!”
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@giant-panda said in I was thinking overthinking :(:
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yeah. Thank you :)
Yes Panda, I was able to take action with my clouding thoughts now.. I was just able to express it in that way :)
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@giant-panda that guy looks familiar tho. HHAHA ;D he reminds me of someone
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HAHAHAHAHA
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@cjko said in I was thinking overthinking :(:
The're trying to drag me down..
The're trying to make me frown..
The're trying to build new theories..
The're trying to create false stories..I don't know why I'm overthinking,
Trying not to let them get into my vein.
But hell, here I am thinking in vain.
All I want now is to vanish them again.Never ever think of them , I wish.
These made me close my eyes in anguish.
Burning bridges will never be a great experience
and will never ever be a good thing to practice.Cjko -_-
Another poet spotted!! This poem was beautiful, @cjko! Keep on writing and sharing awesome poems!
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@blue_nebula wow. really? Didn't consider myself a poet, but thank you. :)