@mvie_20 š¤£ i bet you perhaps not even asian, or may be not CHINESE š
I grew up with mixed culture, so gaslighting is not a new thing. Since i was kid, i was told to do this and that based on my parents expectations:
You are Asian not Bsian, how come you get B in this test?
You get only A? A is average, B is Based, you get CDEF? Go away from my house š¤£
You know uncle xxx (name)? His son, he already takes his master degree to Netherland, what you do here? Sleeping like scumbag, you suck š
You never have someone, are you gay or you are weird?
All this time, you are 28 yo, you have no flings / lover / companion, aiyo mami and papi will be died one day, then you will be with who? š
I have damnly pathetic kid that cant be something in the future who will never give me grandkids
You are not even a manager yet in your 28? You are useless š
You know aunty xxx daughter? She already married a successful man from america, now i am wondering why you cant have american?
You know aunty xxx son? He already married a british woman who has bluish eyes, you? Succ, even having someone you cant have, leh š
Those only 9 examples that i have to deal everyday. Dont be like it is the end of the world btw.