Women and respect

[Willow]

@mindoverbeauty

Women and Respect

I think you pretty much answered the questions...with your title.
If a girl dresses showing too much skin...she is a slut
If a girl covers up...she is a prude
If we dont wear makeup....we are trashy and have no self confidence
If we do wear makeup...we are fake and/or insecure
Seeing the trend here?
Every girl has a different style. A different way they like to express themselves.
Thats what fashion has been able to grow from for so long. Because with every personality, every girl, there is a different style. And no matter what, you will show your true self and your own flare in one way or another.

A lot of people don’t respect that everyone is unique. They dont respect the personalities and individuality of others.

Its just the society we are living in. People are going to get jealous and put you down for it. They are going to be weirded out by the strange style. And they are going to jump to stereotypes and hasty generalizations. Sad but true.

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[A Former User]

@willow A Politician Lady has an excellent explanation and now she is influence us 😏
Ah willow, you should be the next generation of Barrack Obama i guess.

[Mindoverbeauty]

It really is a shame to see women treat other women how men treat us. It's not our makeup, clothing, jewelery and attitude they don't respect it's us!!! A woman could be wearing the exact same outfit as another woman is wearing and still say the other woman looks like a tramp,whore or slut just because the other woman may have more curves or be prettier than her.

[Mindoverbeauty]

@willow this was the best answer ever.

[Mindoverbeauty]

@rendezvous I think maybe because women have a bad habit I call the nurse habit. They pick men that they think they can change or as most put it fix them.

[Unknown4123]

@mindoverbeauty said in Women and respect:

@rendezvous I think maybe because women have a bad habit I call the nurse habit. They pick men that they think they can change or as most put it fix them.

Ahh not sure about that. I guess, Its more like girls simply feel attracted to badass guys and assholes, because they think that the guy might drive them to do something different. Things they would never do alone or with a good person. And same applies with the boys too.
And talking about the nurse feeling, we all now how unsuccessful it is gonna be. No asshole is gonna change himself by influence of someone. Rather, what results is the fact that either the girl becomes herself an asshole, Or she is devastated after this whole charade ends. Though she might end up learning from her devastation, but even then little mistake might scar her.

[WEED]

way i see women in these days is competition.
the way their dress showing their stomach, yoga pants, cut short jeans
make herself an hot looking girl against the girls wear properly well dressed(less slut)
we lived in society based on materialism we needed. to make us feel better. for example,
i think the girl who got new iphone and the other girl has old iphone. i think the
girl who has old one feels little bummed down. she wanted new iphone b/c she wants to impressed her friend. im pretty sure that happened everyday.

fuck, i cant think other ones that i have a problem with women. oh yeah,
toxic relationships, gold-diggers.

you can disagree with me. i hope you understand what I've said. i took time
to reply this. that's how i see women in today.

[Unknown4123]

@im-bored said in Women and respect:

way i see women in these days is competition.
the way their dress showing their stomach, yoga pants, cut short jeans
make herself an hot looking girl against the girls wear properly well dressed(less slut)
we lived in society based on materialism we needed. to make us feel better. for example,
i think the girl who got new iphone and the other girl has old iphone. i think the
girl who has old one feels little bummed down. she wanted new iphone b/c she wants to impressed her friend. im pretty sure that happened everyday.

fuck, i cant think other ones that i have a problem with women. oh yeah,
toxic relationships, gold-diggers.

you can disagree with me. i hope you understand what I've said. i took time
to reply this. that's how i see women in today.

Girls who are properly dressed are less slut? Wow.

[Mindoverbeauty]

@rendezvous I usually go for the quiet guy/girl

[Unknown4123]

@mindoverbeauty Oh well, I was talking about the general thing you know.

[Mindoverbeauty]

@rendezvous yeah it can also be because women see bad boys as being more dominant while good guys are seen as sensitive. A sensitive man is stronger. A bad boy can't even see past his own fake personality

[Unknown4123]

@mindoverbeauty said in Women and respect:

@rendezvous yeah it can also be because women see bad boys as being more dominant while good guys are seen as sensitive. A sensitive man is stronger. A bad boy can't even see past his own fake personality

Yep true. Agreed✌️

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[Mindoverbeauty]

@rendezvous a so called bad boy is nothing but an insecure man trying to cover up that he is insecure so demeaning strong women makes him feel more dominant a so called nice guy you( know the one that's always stuck in the friend zone) already See's women as his equal with no problem discussing his feeling's. A nice guy doesn't see the need to act like a jackass to attract a woman.

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[Willow]

@im-bored said in Women and respect:

way i see women in these days is competition.
the way their dress showing their stomach, yoga pants, cut short jeans
make herself an hot looking girl against the girls wear properly well dressed(less slut)

This post was all about how women are slut shamed for showing more skin. They are not more or less of sluts based on the way they dress
Just because they show more stomach, does not mean they have slept with more guys. Like seriously???
In atlanta, the city I live near, I am exposed to so many different fashion styles and “trends”.
Art students wear crazy shirts and patterned pants, handmade sandals, tie dye shirts. Gangstas wear hats and really low set jeans. Baggy shirts.
But there is also just normal people. Floating in between it all. Because guess what? Our clothes dont define us. It expresses what we feel. What we want to show the world.

In other words, If showing skin makes me “more slut” then I have slept with a lot of men.
Yet. i can count them all on one hand.

we lived in society based on materialism we needed. to make us feel better. for example,
i think the girl who got new iphone and the other girl has old iphone. i think the
girl who has old one feels little bummed down. she wanted new iphone b/c she wants to impressed her friend. im pretty sure that happened everyday.

This made me laught because I actually dont own a phone
I have an iPod and i am quite happy with it lel.

fuck, i cant think other ones that i have a problem with women. oh yeah,
toxic relationships, gold-diggers.

Im really trying to understand your post. But I feel like some of these things are so wrong that Im misinterpreting them.
Are you generalizing that all women create toxic relationships and are gold diggers?
If it is okay for you to say that alll of them are gold diggers, then I say it is okay to say all men are rapists. see the problem? Its not okay to say that at all

you can disagree with me. i hope you understand what I've said.

I tried

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@mindoverbeauty

I blame it on how narrow-minded society is.
I believe this topic reaches out to more then slut shaming or rivalry between women.

If you are a guy that dies your hair, society will look at you as weird.
If you are a girl that shows more skin then the "acceptable" you are a slut.

WHO THE FUCK did this rules? Why can't we dress the way we feel more confortable without having to hear bullshit from others? I like to wear really tight, ripped jeens and usually dress in all black. The older ppl at the place I work in always make the same kind of joke... They walk up to me and hand me a cent and joke how I can buy jeens that aren't old and ripped. Obviously I don't get triggered by this, but if this joke is a common thing, I can imagine what goes tho their mind to other topics.
Another story that happened the other day, one of my collegues brought a long board to work, so she could use it on our lunch break. Obviously, a random guy at the company yelled "Who the fuck brings a skateboard to work?".

Sometimes I wish society knew that a mind is like a parachute. It doesn't work if it is not open.

Hope I didn't hurt anyone's feelings, toodles! ;)

[Mindoverbeauty]

@willow this is the most ignorant thing!!! 🙄 Thank you for responding to this in such a well mannered way