Am scared that my brother is touching me in my sleep.


  • I don't know what to do. I have that feeling that my brother is touching me in my sleep. And this feeling is not going anywhere
    Nowadays I do lock my door but still sometimes I dozz off. And when I wake up. I have this fear. I don't know if am schizophrenic pr not. The worst part is that my mom might go to another country for like a month. Then it will be just me and him. I play scenarios in my head daily. Another thing is, the lock of my door is very weak. It can easily be broken. I haven't told this to anybody coz I sound crazy. But this fear is eating me. Lately I have been dozzing off. Do any of you have any idea what I should. How should I protect myself it this is true. I just can't imagine a whole month with him alone. What do I do to find proof that he does that. I iust want to make sure am not making this up.

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    @kiarraxxo said in Am scared that my brother is touching me in my sleep.:

    kill him, kidding! Anyways, just show that you can dominate him, girl, you can do it.

    what a retarded comment


  • @quick4 said in Am scared that my brother is touching me in my sleep.:

    What do I do to find proof that he does that. I iust want to make sure am not making this up.

    use a mobile camera or a spy camera to record what happens.

    BTW do you feel the touch even when the door is locked and no one is inside the room?


  • you sound paranoid, if you have no proof, better not make assumptions, find a way to prove it
    try staying up all night for once pretending to be asleep, or something like that


  • I will do the fake sleeping. What happened is that. I once almost dozed off and then I saw him entering my room coz it wasn't locked. But then I opened my eyes and he said he was looking for something which was odd cause he looked startled. I could be assuming which I hope I am. I will never say all of this outloud. I just wanted to release my worries anonymously. I will definitely do the fake sleep even though am scared.


  • Stop assuming and try to observe your brother behaviour during day

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  • This reply is late but I wanted to offer some solutions. Keep in mind I have no clue about your current circumstances, such as your age, socioeconomic status, or home life. My first recommendation would be a portable door lock. It's an easy solution that avoids the hassle of installing a better lock on your door. I bought mine on Amazon and it works like a charm! The only way someone would get in would be by breaking the door. However, I realize that this may not be an option for you depending on where you live. That's why I found some youtube videos for making a door lock with readily available materials.

    The next option is to use a door wedge. This would probably be easier to do than the former option but also not as effective. With a door wedge, an intruder would still be able to get in if they pushed it out from under the door. Depending on how big the opening at the bottom of the door is, they could push it back. However, it would confirm that someone is going into your room. Assuming someone decides to go into your room by moving the wedge, they wouldn't be able to force it back under the door when they leave. Unless they have another exit in your room like a window.

    The final option would be to talk to someone that could help. I know nothing of your family situation but I would hope your parents would be willing to help. If it comes down to it, having someone install a better lock might take one afternoon to solve. You could even ask for a better lock, without explaining your fears as I imagine you don't want to spread that (You could even make up a false reason). I understand that you would be scared of making assumptions because it could hurt your brother's feelings or the rest of your family for that matter. However, this is an important issue not just because of possible sexual assault, but because you won't have peace of mind until this is resolved.

    Finally, I hope this message eased your mind. Originally I saw this post was five days old and was going to ignore it. However, seeing all the dismissive comments made me feel sad. Other people gave impractical solutions like setting up a camera, without taking into account the resources and time needed to set that up. I don't know if you're crazy but by the fact, you're asking whether your crazy or not I really doubt that. Maybe you're making a problem out of nothing, but I don't think it would hurt to try. This is all the help I am capable of giving. These methods are all prevention methods and don't solve whether you've been touched or not. I'm sorry but I have no solutions on how you could go about solving that besides looking for evidence. I hope you'll find the courage within yourself to solve this problem. I know this doesn't mean much from a stranger, but I do hope you find happiness. Don't give up!

    Door Lock:

    Keep in mind that I have no idea the specifications of your door. These door locks are for inward-facing doors which is standard for bedrooms. Note the lining of the door might not fit variations of door locks. Do your research on what may fit.

    Door Stop Wedge:

    Keep in mind that you can just make one yourself, following the general shape.


  • @sup i was literally about to say that


  • I FEEL YOU. Your fear was my reality. So, believe me when I say I feel you. You will get through this(virtual hugs). Ignore all the people who are saying what ever you are feeling wrong or is fake. I am not concluding your brother is doing that but I also don't trust all your feelings would've rooted from nothing. Find where the root of this lies. If you already have found and your fear has become real, I am very sorry that this happened to you.. But if not, if u still have the doubt, pretending to be asleep is the only feasible way, Ik u doze off but try harder and find out a solution.


  • i think you are not sure about it. and you have no prove also.
    so first of all you should change your door lock. and try to know slowly your brother"s opinion about this matter. so that you have to insure about this matter. and try to set a hidden camera in your bed room. after that you will take a action by your parents or police.


  • @quick4 You can use any type of cameras to record a video once you go to your bed or you can sacrifice your sleep for a night and act like you are sleeping if u can control your sleep.

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    @quick4 you wish


  • kill him, kidding! Anyways, just show that you can dominate him, girl, you can do it.


  • That sounds like your fantasy, rest at night.


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