Would you rather options on lost friends........🤔

[Janet]

@decko said in Would you rather options on lost friends........🤔:

@Janet that not an option?🙄

It is an option but I never want to believe that.

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[wheatea]

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[TM]

@Janet I don't believe so much in friendships nowadays so I don't get attached to anyone , but even If I do I would put the worst case scenarion as a possible outcome ... means I choose them not to be a true friend but ok as a human living his life safe and happy .

[Janet]

@Silly_Na said in Would you rather options on lost friends........🤔:

Don’t worry. I’m alive 😊

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[Ash33]

The purpose of this topic has full filled. Now no need to keep commenting on it instead comment on my new topic. People r roasting me there T_T

[Allusion]

@janet i'd rather have a friend be missing because they were hurt, because at least i know the reason, and i wouldn't have to blame myself or rack my brain thinking about her and why she left. since i know the reason, i can at least pray for her. having someone just disappear on you can do more psychological damage because all the possibilities and reasons can drown you and ruin all the good memories you once had. and the damage will stick with you forever, if it is constant, and it can change someone.

i didn't have a friend missing, but i had a friend treat me like trash even after telling them my secrets which they ended up spreading.

[G-A]

@janet

Would you rather have that friend missing because they were hurt in an accident (meaning unable to contact anyone) OR they just disappeared and never said goodbye so maybe you didn't matter at all?

Hurt in an accident is better. Why? Based on my experience, having friend that never said good bye or they just disappeared like something never happened us, it is hurtful more.
That kind of friend will never admit that you have "memories" together. As we all know, memories are kind of treasures for some people. They as well will tell some stories from piecing of memories, then say that "it was my best day / the best day for us / our greatest day together as bla bla bla".
Now i look old 😂

[Alireza.27]

@janet ok to answer your question i would rather not matter than sth happening to them. I have experienced this afew times in life and for women it's either a new man in their life or sth heartbreaking .sometimes you just arent useful anymore. Point is you wont know why and shouldnt try too hard since it's gonna eat you up