Would you rather again!

[RoseStar]

Would you rather get back to your ex who you loved so much before or focus on your current shitty relationship ?

[OliveOlivia]

@Sooomeeeh I don't like to give up, and I don't believe in reminiscing on ex's because there was a break up for a reason, so clearly that relationship was so shitty that it had to end😂
If the current relationship I am in is shitty, then I would work as hard as I could to make it unshitty. I am still in the relationship so that tells me that despite how bad it may seem currently there is a reason why I got into it and there is a reason that I will stay through the bad parts.
Truth is, all relationships can get pretty shitty. We are humans, we disagree, we argue, its normal. But when we get into a relationship that is us agreeing to work through those obstacles whether they're good, bad, hard, or easy.

[Lurker]

@OliveOlivia said in Would you rather again!:

I am still in the relationship so that tells me that despite how bad it may seem currently there is a reason why I got into it and there is a reason that I will stay through the bad parts.

Not exacly, sometimes we stay in a relationship for the wrong reasons and someother times we end a relationship not cuz it was shitty. There's milions of reasons for either scenarios and none are so simple :sweat_smile:

[Bela Hella]

@Sooomeeeh The toughest would you rather for me.. What if u both love them during the relationship and both also shitty..

[Matt_Aranha]

@Sooomeeeh If I had a current relationship AND it was shitty I'd rather get back with an ex, although I wouldn't want to get back with anybody who wasn't equally as prepared to work on what made things not work the first time around either. So it would be the lesser of two evils.

[Lurker]

@Sooomeeeh

Shhhhh, i'm a catfish till the end of June :smirk:

[Matt_Aranha]

@Sooomeeeh You didn't give staying single as an option... haha I choose that!

[Lurker]

@Sooomeeeh

I'm too biassed for this kinds of questions but whatever, get back to my ex.

[RoseStar]

@Lurker ohh maan! I thought it was Miss! 😂😂😂😂

[RoseStar]

@Lurker hahahha why until the end of June?

[Lurker]

@Sooomeeeh

I'll let @petrapark3r elaborate :joy: he she came up with it :smirk:

[OliveOlivia]

@Lurker this is true. I think I was speaking from a more personal view because I've never ended a relationship unless it had to end, and I've never stayed in a toxic one. But these things do happen, I've just never experienced them

[Lurker]

@OliveOlivia

Sometimes being alone is so terrifying that we prefer to stay in an abusive relationship, it's wrong, but we get used to the toxicity :shrug:

[pe7erpark3r]

@Lurker said in Would you rather again!:

@Sooomeeeh

That's for him her to reveal :smirk:

It's catfish July yay :joy: TWS is all female during july, so the upvotes are shared equally :triumph:

Some catfish like Miss @Lurker prefer to make others think they are the hottest user here :dancer: , but me I just try to catfish people into participating in good old fashioned discussions :yum:

[RoseStar]

@Bela-Hella I knew this was a tough one! haha. Well, if both relationships are shitty then best just leave them all and move on and enjoy single life! Who knows, maybe someone better will come and also a person must bring in the best in you not the stress in you. So whenever you feel stressed all the time its best to just leave and move on. No relationship is perfect , for me what matters a lot is the respect you have for each other and not being too quick in a relationship. Love takes time to know and time to grow so better take it slow than be in a rush. Idk just my thoughts

[What is this]

@Sooomeeeh I'd rather focus on what's there right now and what awaits me. Never going back to the past, because if that past relationship and that person were worth it, they would have been with me in the present

[INFINITY]

@Sooomeeeh The second one. There's a reason he/she is your ex.

[RoseStar]

@Lurker haha is this a tough one Miss?

[Lurker]

@Sooomeeeh

Nope, not for me. :sweat_smile:

[RoseStar]

@Lurker hahaa is sheshe he a lady/man too?